06/26/2026
The women in your life should challenge you. Pray for you. Tell you the truth even when it’s hard.
But if you’re honest, do you have that? Maybe people who celebrate your wins but grow quiet when things get heavy. The kind of friendship that actually sharpens you, that stays when it’s inconvenient and speaks when it would be easier to stay silent, that feels rare. Maybe even like something you stopped believing was possible.
And that loneliness is one of the quietest burdens women in leadership carry. Because from the outside, you look connected. You have a network. You show up, you contribute, you lead. But inside, there’s a hunger for something that goes so much deeper than proximity.
Proverbs 27:17 says “as iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” Iron on iron isn’t gentle. It’s intentional. It requires friction, closeness, and trust. That kind of relationship doesn’t happen through a follow or a coffee chat. It’s built in rooms where women are willing to be known, not just impressive.
The loneliness in leadership isn’t a personal failing. It’s a sign that you were made for more than surface-level connection. You were designed for the kind of community where someone looks you in the eye and says the thing you needed to hear but were afraid to ask for.
That woman exists. That community exists. Sometimes you just have to find the room where people are actually committed to each other’s becoming.
What do you believe the women in your life should bring?