07/17/2026
Shulamit, you were the paradigm shift queen. Always Miss you 💔
Before I write, I often ask myself:
Could something I share today be exactly what someone needs to hear? Is that the same for you? What if by sharing a word, a phrase, or an experience, your words could become the encouragement someone else needs today?
Sometimes a simple shift in perspective can change everything. Paradigm Shift.
Two women recently inspired me: my mother and Oprah. In that order.
My mother, who is navigating mobility challenges, reminded me of the power of the words we use with ourselves.
Instead of saying, “I must get up,” she says:
“What if I try? What if I can?”
That small shift replaces pressure with curiosity and possibility.
Then I heard Oprah share a powerful question:
“How can I serve others in this experience?”
That question changes how we approach our work, our relationships, our challenges, and our purpose.
I saw this lived out through Shulamit, a beloved member of the GIFT community and a Holocaust survivor. Even while facing her own challenges, she was always asking:
“What can I do to make this world even better ?”
She gave her time generously, created projects that brought joy to others, and lived the quote often attributed to Anne Frank:
“No one has ever become poor by giving.”
Shulamit didn’t just believe it. She lived it.
Her example inspired my giving.
What if my money was meant to create impact?
After giving 10% of our income to charity, my family and I decided to challenge ourselves to give 20%. Crazy!?!
It def. might restrict us, but I asked “what if this extra money is destined for impact?” Not we have to. Paradigm shift.
Which inspired GIFT Giving Circle.
What if YOU gave a little every month? What if YOUR small contributions with others, created something far greater than any one person could do alone?
Paradigm Shift questions
What if I try? How can I serve?
What is one word, phrase, or belief that creates a shift in perspective for you?