08/10/2026
I entered foster care at three years old because of severe abuse.
Over the next 14 years, I lived in 17 foster homes, six group homes, and juvenile detention centers.
People often ask me what it was like growing up in foster care.
The truth is, every child's story is different.
Mine began with abuse, but I met countless other kids whose families were struggling with addiction, mental health challenges, poverty, or other circumstances that left them without the support they needed. Different paths... but the same outcome. We were all searching for stability, hope, and someone who wouldn't give up on us.
Looking back, I don't remember wishing for the perfect foster home.
I remember wishing someone could simply help us find the help that already existed.
Too many foster families receive a placement call with no idea where to find resources. Too many kinship caregivers are suddenly responsible for a child with little support. Too many young adults age out of foster care feeling like they're completely on their own.
That's why I started CKMD Army.
Not because I think I can fix the entire foster care system.
But because I believe we can make it easier for people to find help when they need it most.
That's why we're building the CKMD Army 50-State Foster Care Resource Guide, connecting youth in foster care, families, caregivers, and advocates with organizations already doing incredible work in their communities.
I also want people to know this:
You don't have to become a foster parent to change a child's life.
You can mentor.
You can volunteer.
You can support a foster family.
You can hire a young adult aging out of care.
You can simply choose to show up.
Sometimes, that's all it takes to change someone's future.
I'd love to hear from you.
Before you learned more about foster care, what did you think it looked like? And what changed your perspective?