10/14/2026
Words of Wisdom Wednesdays – October 14, 2026
Welcome to another edition of WoWW! This week’s advice comes to us from Rebecca Malotke-Meslin. I met Rebecca when she was leading the National Society of Professional Engineers (NSPE) Women’s Leadership Program (of which I participated alongside an amazing cohort!) in Kansas City in 2025. We’ve since shared some great conversation, meals, and drinks AND Rebecca’s even engaged with Society of Women Engineers - SWE to share her wisdom on leading confidently, authentically, and unapologetically! She reminds us to:
“TALK WELL BEHIND PEOPLE’S BACKS, THEN TELL THEM DIRECTLY. WE ALL NEED TO HEAR IT!”
As I’m in the heart of employee-owner performance review season at Burns & McDonnell (a time I truly love!), this advice is timely. I’ve always believed that feedback is a “gift,” so how will you provide positive feedback this month?
[Background / Context: As I’ve traveled and connected with SWE members, partners, and allies across our global community, I’ve gathered advice that stays with you. These insights come from real moments, real lessons, and real experiences that shape how we grow as engineers and leaders. Each Wednesday, I will share one of these reflections.
I hope you jump into the conversation, react to the advice, build on it, or share how it shows up in your own journey. And IF YOU HAVE WISDOM YOU WOULD LIKE TO CONTRIBUTE to a future Wednesday post, please feel free to use the link in the comments below.]
Kerrie Greenfelder