09/30/2026
What happened at Cornell is heartbreaking.
Before anything else, our hearts are with the young woman at the center of this story - and with the countless women and girls who are carrying experiences of sexual violence, harassment, fear, and violation every day.
Too often, women are taught how to protect themselves.
Watch your drink.
Stay together.
Text when you get home.
Be careful.
But where is the equally relentless conversation with boys and men?
Where are we teaching them what consent means, how to withstand peer pressure, how to challenge harmful behavior, and how to act with integrity when belonging to the group is on the line?
At Journeymen, this feels central to the work.
We want boys to know that strength is not dominance.
That loyalty does not mean protecting someone from consequences.
That courage sometimes means standing apart from the group.
And that being a protector can mean protecting someone from your own friends.
We believe boys and young men are capable of deep compassion, integrity, and leadership.
But we have to teach it.
We have to model it.
And we have to be willing to live it ourselves.