10/17/2026
Consent is an informed, freely given agreement to participate in an activity. It is an ongoing conversation about boundaries and comfort levels. Consent matters in every area of life, including s*x.
Sexual Consent is the agreement to engage in s*xual activity. It is essential for respectful relationships and is also a legal requirement. A helpful way to remember the components of consent is FRIES:
Freely Given – No pressure! Everyone involved should feel free to say no without fear of consequences, intimidation, or manipulation.
Reversible – You can change your mind! Consent is ongoing. You can withdraw consent at any time—even if you have consented before, are in a long-term relationship, or the activity has already started. “No” should always be respected.
Informed – You know the whole story! Everyone involved understands what is going to happen and has discussed relevant boundaries, protection methods, STI history, or other important information.
Enthusiastic – You are sure of your “yes!” You genuinely want to participate, rather than feeling pressured or obligated. Everyone expresses enthusiasm differently, but consent should always reflect a willingness to participate.
Specific – Every action, every time! Saying yes to one activity, such as kissing, does not mean saying yes to another, such as s*x. Consent should never be assumed or treated as blanket permission for future interactions.
Important Things to Remember:
There are situations where a person cannot legally or meaningfully give consent, including when someone is unconscious, incapacitated, or significantly impaired by drugs or alcohol. Laws regarding age of consent vary by state and country. Power imbalances can also affect a person’s ability to freely consent.
Non-consensual s*xual activity is serious, and anyone can be a victim. If you or someone you know needs help, resources and support are available.
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Information from plannedparenthood.org