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Monday 8:30am - 4:30pm Tuesday 8:30am - 4:30pm Wednesday 8:30am - 4:30pm Thursday 8:30am - 4:30pm Friday 8:30am - 4:30pm

The Retreat

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💜 Working to break the cycle of violence.
☎️ 24-hour hotline 631-329-2200

Founded in 1987 in Eastern Long Island, The Retreat helps people build safer, healthier, and more meaningful relationships and everyday connections. The Retreat provides a wide range of prevention programming and confidential, free support services to those who have experienced relationship abuse, family violence and/or sexual assault.

10/27/2026

This Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM), our staff and community members put their creativity to work, bringing color to the messages "With Survivors, Always" and "Safety. Support. Solidarity."

These messages reflect what meaningful support can look like: believing survivors, respecting their autonomy, connecting people with resources, and building communities where safety and healing are possible.
Thank you to everyone who participated and helped make these messages visible in our community!

Visit the link in our bio to learn more about DVAM and access materials to help you learn and support survivors.

10/26/2026

🎃 Halloween is a time for creativity and self-expression, but no matter what someone wears, a costume is never consent.

Consent means freely agreeing to a specific activity without pressure or manipulation. It can be withdrawn at any time, and it requires ongoing communication and respect.

Consent isn't just a Halloween conversation. It's part of building healthy relationships and creating a culture where everyone's boundaries are respected.

10/23/2026

RUNNER SPOTLIGHT: India Awe

This November, India will take on her first TCS New York City Marathon in honor of her childhood friend, Gabby Petito, and in support of survivors of domestic violence. As a law student passionate about advocacy and stronger protections for survivors, India is turning her commitment into action.

Join us in cheering India on and supporting her marathon journey! Donate through the link in our bio.

10/22/2026

💜 Help give back this October! As part of The Great Give Back, the Amagansett Free Library is hosting a donation drive benefiting The Retreat through October 31.

Community members can drop off new items in the donation bins at the front of the library. Especially needed are:

• New underwear & socks for women and children, all sizes
• New Hair brushes
• Full-size shampoo & conditioner
• Diapers
• Women's leggings
• Pajamas for girls and boys, from 2T through teens

Every donation will help provide essential items to individuals and families receiving support from The Retreat. Teens who donate can also receive one hour of community service.

📍 Amagansett Free Library, 215 Main St., Amagansett
📅 October 1–31

Thank you to the Amagansett community for helping create safety, healing, and hope for survivors. 💜

10/21/2026

Teens are helping lead the conversation on digital safety.

We’re proud to be featured in The New York Community Trust’s story, “Teens Protecting Teens from Social Media Harm,” highlighting the work of Teen Leadership Council members Bhoomi Jobanputra and Isla Robbins.

Through informal, peer-led conversations, Bhoomi and Isla help fellow teens recognize relationship red flags, navigate social media safely, understand consent, and identify ways to seek support and help others. Their insights also help inform The Retreat’s digital safety education and resources for young people and the adults who support them.

As technology continues to shape how young people connect and build relationships, youth voices are essential to creating relevant, practical, and accessible tools for navigating online spaces safely.

Thank you to The New York Community Trust for highlighting this important work and supporting our efforts to address technology-related harms and promote healthy relationships.

Read the full story: https://buff.ly/aQm5aSg

10/21/2026

During Breast Cancer Awareness Month, we’re proud to recognize our ongoing partnership with the Ellen Hermanson Foundation and thank them for their continued support of The Retreat and the individuals and families we serve.

We’re grateful to partner with an organization so deeply committed to women’s health and ensuring that financial barriers don’t stand in the way of care. Together, we’re working toward a community where more people can access the support they need, when they need it.

Learn more about the Ellen Hermanson Foundation at ellenhermanson.org.

10/20/2026

A heartfelt thank you to Sixth Street for standing with survivors and supporting The Retreat this Domestic Violence Awareness Month.

Thanks to Sixth Street’s generosity, The Retreat’s Giving Day was strengthened by a $10,000 matching gift and challenge opportunity, helping inspire our community to take action and make an even greater impact.

There’s still time to make a difference this October! Make a gift to support survivors and help The Retreat continue providing life-changing services to individuals and families in our community. Every contribution helps us break the cycle of violence.

Thank you, Sixth Street, for investing in survivors and helping us build a safer future.

Give today: https://buff.ly/kbswcYS

10/19/2026

Join The Inner Table on October 31 in Sag Harbor for an intimate evening of seasonal food, meaningful conversation, and connection, hosted by Culinary Nutritionist Stefanie Sacks.

10% of every ticket supports The Retreat’s Rewrite Your Recipe program: a trauma-informed culinary nutrition initiative that supports survivors of domestic violence and their children.

📍 Sag Harbor
🗓️ October 31 | 6:30 PM
🎟️ $150 per person
Register here: https://buff.ly/46cKVPK

10/19/2026

RUNNER SPOTLIGHT: Mark McClean

Meet Mark, one of the incredible runners joining Team Retreat for the 2026 TCS New York City Marathon! We’re so grateful to have Mark running alongside us and helping raise awareness and support for survivors. 💜

Follow along as we spotlight the runners behind Team Retreat!

10/16/2026

On October 11, The Retreat was grateful for the opportunity to attend a screening of Men of Courage at Bay Street Theater, presented in partnership with The Center, and to contribute to the conversation that followed with director Byron Hurt. The film highlights the importance of engaging men and boys in violence prevention and creating space for meaningful dialogue about building safer communities.

Thank you to The Center, Bay Street Theater, Byron Hurt, and everyone involved in bringing this important film and conversation to the community. We’re grateful for the opportunity to share more about The Retreat’s work and our commitment to breaking the cycle of violence.

Address

13 Goodfriend Drive
East Hampton, NY
11937

Opening Hours

Monday	8:30am - 4:30pm
Tuesday	8:30am - 4:30pm
Wednesday	8:30am - 4:30pm
Thursday	8:30am - 4:30pm
Friday	8:30am - 4:30pm

Telephone

(631) 329-4398

Website

http://www.allagainstabuse.org/

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