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501c3 non-profit Foundation that offers short term assistance to Horses in need.. About Becky: Becky was born April 1, 1982 and grew up in Bow, NH.

She graduated from Bow High School in 2000, and then attended the University of New Hampshire graduating with Honors and a degree in Anthropology in 2004. At age eleven, Becky started showing horses under the tutelage of Deedee Ludlam of Bear Brook Stables in Allenstown. She owned a special Morgan mare named Gradell's Delight. Becky and Daisy showed all over New England, most frequently at Deerfield Fairgrounds. They competed in Junior Exhibitor Hack and Morgan Pleasure Junior to Ride classes and were named champion many times. At UNH, Becky found her second love, archeology, and attended dig sites in Belize, Bolivia, and Guatemala. She was awarded a full scholarship to complete her Doctorate at the University of California at Riverside, a leading school in archeology. Both Becky and Daisy passed away in 2005, just a few months apart. Daisy in April, Becky in September, the bond between them ever strong..

11/01/2026

At first, it was thought to be an injury. But initial exams revealed something else for this young c**t. There was a long road of tests, 2nd opinions. A road that left his owner in financial straits.

She reached out to Becky’s Gift and we quickly assisted with the diagnostics. Finding the cause for her c**t’s symptoms was critical; not only for pain relief, but for his future.

Finally, answers. With a recommended surgery that cost-wise, was now out of reach. Both client and c**t had come so far to get to this point. We all were determined they wouldn’t have to give up now.

We helped as she scrambled to raise funds. And we’re thrilled to say surgery is scheduled for next week.

Please send healing thoughts. Or, better yet, send gloves. (Per our client, “This is him with his emotional support glove during an ultrasound”. Gotta say, we love this boy.😊)

10/25/2026

Becky.

Born in 1982, the sole child to Bob and Kathy Lang, Becky grew up in Bow NH. Animals, especially her horse Daisy, were her passion. Helping ones in need defined her as a child and beyond.

She’d come home with a baby bird found in a parking lot, keeping it alive until it could be brought to a rescue. Baby squirrels, turtles, they’d find a caring home when needed. As a student in Central America, she’d buy meals for starving dogs. She brought one pup to the vet, then cared for it at her apartment until recovered.

Becky discovered a love for archeology in her college years. In 2005, that love brought her to the Mayan Research Program at University of California.

It was her first year there. She was out driving one night when a rabbit appeared in the road. Swerving to miss it, the rabbit survived. Becky did not. Ironically, at age 23, Becky died saving an animal.

In 2009, family friend Pam Harrison and Becky’s mom Kathy founded Becky’s Gift Equine Relief. The all-volunteer, donation based non-profit channeled Becky’s love for Daisy, her passion for helping animals, into a mission to provide temporary assistance to horse owners in need.

If we sometimes refer to Becky in the present tense, it’s because she’s very much with us. It seems her energy guides us in many ways. There’ve been occasions when Becky’s Gift had an urgent need, and just as our anxiety was rising, the resource was unexpectedly donated. Each time, with a smile, we thank Becky for watching over us.

When her earthly time ended, Becky’s legacy to help countless horses and owners began. (Do you feel the resulting love and gratitude? Becky, we direct that question to you.)

10/18/2026

Non-profits often strive to create policies, procedures, protocols to define what they do.

At BECKY’S GIFT, we quickly discovered how limiting that can be. We have all of those things; some with flexibility, others not. But early on our lesson was this: for every horse, every human, the circumstances are entirely different. While some stories may sound similar; they aren’t. All require a “case by case” approach.

Awhile back, a certain case had us feeling stuck. At first glance, it appeared to push hard against our policies. But did it? Was it a bylaw violation- or was the struggle about our own personal biases?

It was tempting to keep it simple and quickly say no to the assistance request. We didn’t. Where would that leave the horse and family in urgent need of help?

Over the course of the day, we came back to it numerous times. Dissected our concerns into 2 piles: policy and personal. The personal pile far outweighed any possible blurring of policy. Still, we were unsure.

Then, there it was. Kathy Lang (Becky’s mom) said these words: “When in doubt, we err on the side of kindness.” All doubt vanished. There was our answer. And it was staring us in the face all along. (pic: Our guiding light, Becky)

10/11/2026

Euthanasia. We talk about it every year. This year, we’re seeing more clients struggle with it than ever before.

Humane equine euthanasia is expensive. Burial or removal adds that much more, resulting in an overall cost some just can’t afford. With the financial burden, or being unable to face the decision emotionally (we get that), the owner may choose trying to rehome a horse with disabilities. Or trying to place it in rescues that are likely full.

If successful at either, the often elderly horse faces the stress of being uprooted, leaving behind the security of their herd and humans for their last days. Death would be experienced in a strange environment, with a slaughterhouse always a possibility for the infirmed horse.

If NOT successful, there’s another fate that may await the horse. And that is, the owner deciding to “let nature take its course”. They’re hopeful the horse will die peacefully in its sleep. But death rarely honors that wish. It’s more likely to involve prolonged suffering. Prolonged trauma for both horse and human.

We feel the moment of death may be the most important moment of a horse’s life. As owners, we have a responsibility to try to ensure that moment is as humane as possible.

If financial concerns are keeping humane euthanasia out of reach, we encourage owners to consider resources that may be able to help. Ask your vet about assistance program options (AEP may be one). Feel free to connect with Becky’s Gift. And if anyone here is aware of other resources, PLEASE SHARE! This is a conversation we need to have.

09/27/2026

Captured as a yearling, she traveled to holding facilities across the country in search of a home. Finally, one was found. But the search began anew when, years later, she landed at a rescue.

Adopted by our client, there were challenges from the start. Despite a safe environment, she was prone to constant severe injuries of unknown origin. The vet visits piled up. Something was "off".

Frantically trying to find help for a mare her family loved, various recommendations were made. None of them realistic. After "tearing herself open" yet again, the rescue finally recommended euthanasia.

Our client searched for options, struggled to find a different outcome. Sometimes, there isn't one. It was a mystery with no clear answers.

"We laid her to rest yesterday. I couldn't stand the thought of her continuing to go through injuries with no known reason as to why. I wanted to say thank you for everything you guys did for us."

The mare is now at peace. For her family, it will take time.

09/13/2026

Written by our client, the story is familiar. Jazz, a main character (and the handsome boy on the cover), a remarkable horse we were honored to know.

We were beyond words when our client contacted us re: including Becky’s Gift in the book.

We encourage you to read it. It’s a beautifully written, heartfelt story of “faith, courage, friendship and second chances. The Heart Horse celebrates the unforgettable animals who carry us through our darkest moments- and help us find our way home.”

Jazz, you are no longer with us. Your story will now touch many hearts. As it certainly did ours.

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09/06/2026

Word had it she was struggling. Our former client lives alone, managing a rough, isolated farm by herself.

When money’s tight, she ensures her horses are fed by sacrificing her own needs. Groceries, medical care, fall by the wayside.

She’s proud, as she should be. But her pride means she won’t ask us for help. Becky's Gift assisted a few years ago; she fears she’s “let us down” if she asks again.

We were given a heads up by a rescue that she was seeking hay. Coincidentally, a farmer reached out to us with some to donate.

We connected the two so she wouldn’t feel the hay was coming directly from Becky’s Gift. After racing over to grab it (by herself), she sent us a note that evening. “This hay is amazing!!! mostly Timothy. my 2 horses are going to luv it. Thxs again!!”

All parties were thrilled. But none more so than us. We’ll continue to check in periodically, which she welcomes. In her isolation, it’s a small- and necessary- connection.

08/30/2026

Two special horses whose presence brought joy to their owners for many years. Two clients joined in grief by their recent losses.

They arrived together at Tack Room For Becky's Gift laden with donations. Wanting to give back; wanting a meaningful tribute to their beloved partners.

Donations commemorating loss are the hardest. We feel the pain the moment the person walks through our door. We hold it in our hearts, deeply honored to be the recipient of these gifts.

The last thing handed to me was a halter. “You’ll love this! It’s brand new!” Then, a shadow of sadness as she gazes at it, “I had just got it for him. He never had a chance to wear it.”

I haven’t put the halter in the tack shop yet. I don’t know why. Oddly, I feel like, out of respect, it needs more time.

Jazz and Karma, we raise our glasses to you. The horses helped in your memory will be forever grateful.

08/26/2026

Post-Sale Smiles. (Can't see the smile on that one wee shopper? She found the perfect pony and trust us, it's there...)

08/23/2026

It’s a wrap! BIG SALE 2026. Our volunteer team of Linda Barnes, Kathy Lang, Laura Messer and Anna Henry kept things flowing. With shoppers from far 'n wide, and folks who donated amazing stuff, over $3000 was raised to help horses in need.

You all are part of Becky’s Gift. We’re joined by a shared passion for the welfare of our equine partners. We each contribute in our own ways. The result? A special community we’re so blessed to be a part of. Thank you. ❤

Address

PO Box 31
Canterbury, NH
03224

Telephone

+18777232597

Website

http://www.beckysgift.org/

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