09/29/2026
When someone turns to you for support during a reproductive crisis, knowing what to say or where to start can be hard.
That’s why we partnered with reproductive chaplains across the country to create our Reproductive First Aid Kit for Spiritual Caregivers, drawing on their experience and wisdom.
START WITH A LITTLE ✨TLC:
🩷 Establish TRUST. Thank them for trusting you. Create space for honesty. Explain your confidentiality practices and any limits.
👂 LISTEN to their story. Lead with curiosity and warmth. Mirror their language, follow their lead, and let them tell you what their experience means to them. Try asking: “What kind of support would feel helpful?”
🤝 Help them CONNECT with specialized care. You don’t have to have all of the answers. Stay within your scope, stay connected, and help them find the spiritual, medical, legal, or financial support they need.
Remember: spiritual care is an important and often overlooked part of reproductive care. Whether you’re clergy, a chaplain, or a trusted friend, you can make room for honesty, complexity, grief, relief, hope, and every feeling in between.
Save this post for a time when someone turns to you for help. Share it with someone who wants to offer compassionate reproductive care. 🫶
Resources featured in the kit:
Faith Aloud Hotline:
M&A Hotline:
If/When/How:
National Network of Abortion Funds: