10/12/2026
Yes! Early use vs. later use!
Intentionally taking steps now to put a routine in place will be so helpful later down the road. Remember that a day out is great, but even a few intentional moments taken through your day can be a game changer. Your future self will thank you. Also, not every loved one will accept your need for “me time,” regardless of their stage of dementia or level of independence; the need is real nonetheless. If a few hours or a full day feels out of reach for you, ask yourself how you can make the most of whatever time is available.
One of my favorite forms of “emergency me time” fits into almost any schedule: go into a quiet, dark room (think a bathroom or closet) where you can take a few deep breaths and reset your nervous system. It isn’t enough, but especially if you can slip this in a few times during the day, it will make a difference.