10/23/2026
I had a mid-size emotional/heart/soul/brain last Sunday.
Nicole has been attending One Family Church on Delmar for a few months. She lives homeless in the Delmar community. She has been sleeping on the ground with no tent since I've known her. Nicole had to carry with her at all times her two suitcases, purse, and a backpack. She spends much of her days at the library.
Last week, she was robbed.
Sunday at church she told me of a new sleeping opportunity.
When I drove her there, it was a 7' x 15' fenced in space that one protected a heating/cooling unit - long since not in use and destroyed.
The unit sits near center of the space. Truly tight, but so far a SAFE home.
When I left the parking lot on Sunday, leaving Nicole to sleep on the dirt, rocks, and sticks . . . I had lot of questions to ask 'myself'. I was not happy with me at all.
I've be in relationship with people on the street for 18-19 years. I have to be able to drive off, knowing I will see them again soon.
I could not drive off with peace Sunday. Was up through the night was 'what now'? Am I that person?
I've settled through the week on an area of calm (as of 1:00 pm today).
A few days ago a friend of mine from One Family and I set up a 1 person tent, a camping toilet, a trash bucked with lid, water, and a food bucket with a lid.
I took her dirty laundry and left clean.
And we knew, it was not enough. The small tarp with the tent was not going to protect her from the elements.
Went back down with a friend today, and we put two pallets under her tent to protect her from ground moisture, a foam piece on top of the tarp, on top of the pallets. Then hung the tarps so that rain would run off, and it still gave her a place for a private toilet, to stand to get dressed, and her other two buckets.
Indeed, this is the smallest of tiny 'houses'.
Nicole said when she came home to the tent a few days ago, she just cried.
Today she was in sweet gratitude for our care for her.
And we DO care for her.
Working with One Family to find long-term options for her.