The Good Love Project

10/20/2026

Did y'all know you can give yourself a cliteral O... from the inside... without touching?! Come find out how. Oh yeah, this stuff is good for you too 😉

Registration link in Story & Bio
See you this weekend!

09/29/2026

What if your biggest consent challenge isn’t saying no… but knowing what you want?

People pleasing can make consent complicated.

You might be great at saying yes.
Great at anticipating everyone else’s needs.
Great at keeping the peace.

But ask, “What do YOU want?”

…and suddenly: *blank.*

I know this one personally.

Learning consent as a recovering people pleaser has meant learning to recognize my own desires, trust my yes, honor my no, and asking for what I want.

Because consent isn't just about permission. It’s about agency.

And someone else's no doesn't make your desire wrong.

You’re allowed to care about other people without minimizing yourself.

You’re allowed to include yourself in the equation ❤️‍🔥

Read *The Art of Consent for Recovering People Pleasers* at the link in bio.

Tell me... What’s harder for you: knowing your yes, knowing your no, or asking for what you want?

07/13/2026

Good Love, bad jokes!

06/11/2026

In my latest episode of The Good Love Podcast, I interview the founder of LS Playground, Josh Fink about building community, polyamory and why diversity is a strength in s*x positive spaces.
https://open.spotify.com/episode/5fJrqmU9O8q8ECHVErdj4b?si=3aaea66c8313446c

The Good Love Podcast · Episode

06/06/2026

Not every night is meant to feel the same.

Some are darker.
Some are louder.

And some… glow a little differently. ✨

LUMINA
June 12

05/29/2026

I did it! I've got the first three entries up for my library of On-Demand Pre-recorded Classes! I struggled with my own perfectionism and finding a platform that was simple and affordable. I'm very excited to share this new way of engaging with my work that keeps everything in one place and accessible.

💃 Proud of me 😁

03/20/2026

This week, I achieved one of my goals and got to teach a kink class at a University!

02/22/2026

The relaunch of P***y Pilates™️ (3rd edition) went great! Where should I bring it next?!

02/08/2026

Confused by so-called "mismatched libido"? Have you ever felt ready to go in your mind but you body just wouldn't get on board? I promise, you're not broken, just human.

In my next class "Understanding Desire: The Spicy Science of What Turns Us On", we’ll blend science, self-awareness, and a little bit of play to unpack how desire really works. You’ll learn why libido changes (throughout life or even day to day), what turns your “brakes” on, what fuels your “accelerator,” and how to create the kind of context where pleasure can actually show up.

Whether you’re curious, frustrated, or wanting to feel more connected to your erotic self, this class is designed to help you understand your desire with more clarity, kindness, and ease.

Join us and get a little smarter — and softer — about your turn-on. 💜

Feb 12th 6pm at Sexploratorium
Bring your questions and curiosity!



https://www.s*xploratoriumdenver.com/event-details-registration/understanding-desire-the-spicy-science-of-what-turns-us-on