10/10/2026
I heard about the burnt toast theory this last week, and I’ve been thinking about it ever since. Basically, the idea is that something as small as burning your toast and having to make it again can change the timing of your day and put you on a different path. Something that feels frustrating in the moment might lead you somewhere you were meant to be. And of course, my mind went right to Frank.
When Frank came here, we pictured him settling into his foster home, finding his family, and getting to be a puppy. Instead, he’s been through so much, and we’ve spent weeks trying to figure out what’s going on inside his little body. Every time we feel like we’re getting somewhere, there’s another question or another thing we need to look into. It’s frustrating because we just want him to feel better, and we wish we could explain to him why all of this is happening. And for a small rescue, taking such a financial hit is scary. You want to do everything you can for the dog in front of you while still being able to help the next one.
But hearing about this made me think that maybe there’s more to Frank’s story than what we can see right now. Maybe the person who’s going to adopt him hasn’t found us yet. Maybe they aren’t ready today, but by the time he’s ready, they will be too. Maybe all this extra time with his fosters is helping us understand exactly what he needs, so when that person does come along, we’ll know. I keep thinking that wherever he ends up, it will be with someone who understands what he’s been through and loves him through whatever comes next.
I wonder what this experience is going to teach us, too. Maybe it brings us to someone we wouldn’t have met otherwise, or teaches us something that helps another dog down the road. We’ve already had people show up for Frank in ways that mean so much, especially during the moments when we’ve felt overwhelmed. I don’t think you always recognize what an experience is teaching you while you’re still in the middle of it. Sometimes you’re just trying to get through the day, make the next decision, and hope you’re doing the right thing.
I wish Frank didn’t have to go through any of this. I’d take the easy, healthy puppy chapter for him in a heartbeat. But since we can’t change what’s happened, I have to keep believing that this road is taking him somewhere good, and that we’re going to learn and grow along the way. Frank is a blessing, even when the circumstances around him don’t feel like one. I’m hoping that someday, when we see him happy at home with his person, we’ll understand a little more of why it took this particular path to get him there.
Happy long weekend 💙