4TOM

28/10/2026

Manlikestubbs Collective raising awareness and now partnering with Co-alc Alliance

Oli was just 27.

A daddy. A son. A stepson. A brother. A grandson. A cousin. A nephew. A friend.

He took his own life in late January 2026 after experiencing a cocaethylene-linked mental health crisis – a devastating reaction linked to mixing alcohol and co***ne which occurs during the comedown.

Oli is loved, missed and remembered every day. His loss has devastated families, friends, colleagues and communities across the UK and Europe.

His story is why ManLikeStubbs Collective exists.

We are building a community in Oli’s memory to help prevent other families from experiencing the pain we now live with.

We will:

• Deliver workshops in schools, colleges, universities, workplaces and community settings about the dangers and su***de risks of mixing alcohol and co***ne.

• Support and signpost children and young people bereaved by parental su***de.

• Campaign for su***des involving alcohol and co***ne to be properly identified, categorised and recorded.

• Campaign for recognition and research into cocaethylene-linked mental health crises and su***de.

• Support parents, carers, schools and professionals helping young people affected by su***de.

Oli’s life mattered, as did many others who have left this world in the same way.

His tragic story, and many more like it can help save others.

ManLikeStubbs Collective – in memory of our wonderful Oli. Forever 27 💜

Look After You ❤️🙏🏻

27/10/2026

Have you lost someone you love to su***de ?
Join us online this Thursday 29th October at 6pm
A safe space to talk about your grief with others who understand .
To attend click on link below and we’ll email you the meeting link .
Or for more information about this online group or our regular face to face groups ,message us here⬆️ or email us at [email protected]

Have you lost someone you love to su***de ? Join us online and meet with others who understand this complex loss .

23/10/2026

Tuesdays 7pm , Men walking and talking group Merthyr

22/10/2026

Our first online support group is being held next Thursday 29th October at 6pm .
Please share with anyone you feel may be wondering whether group support is for them .
Some people join to talk ,others to just listen . Some join once and some keep coming for months or years .

Click on the link to register
Facilitated by a qualified therapist to ensure a safe space for all attendees.

Ogmore Valley Su***de Awareness CIC
Ginger Heart Foundation
The Jacob Abraham Foundation
Yaki-Da Boi Project
Su***de&Co
Survivors of Su***de Bereavement Support Association Inc (SOSBSA)
BAGS for Strife
Cynon Wellbeing Coordinators
Taff Ely Wellbeing Coordinators
Kirsty Needs Foundation
The ;cky Foundation
ManLikeStubbs
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Have you lost someone you love to su***de ? Join us online and meet with others who understand this complex loss .

21/10/2026

This article discusses , ADHD , rejection sensitive dysphoria, addiction and su***de risk

Henry is in the Daily Mirror today, page 20.

Thank you to Dan Warburton for talk to me and for the care he took. I talked about what we didn't know. I never knew about rejection sensitive dysphoria, which so many people with ADHD live with. I didn't know young people with ADHD are more likely to die by su***de, or that ADHD medication is linked to a lower risk. We weren't equipped to support him properly, and I don't want any other family to be in that place.

If lads knew what to say when a mate said "I'm thinking of killing myself", it could save lives. That's what our peer mentor training is about. We work with the ADHD Coaching Agency because coaching gives young people with ADHD someone in their corner: help to understand how their brain works, to plan, to manage big feelings and to believe in themselves. It’s the support we wish Henry had had, and through the Foundation it’s free.

The article also mentions A Night of Musical Theatre and Swing, hosted by the ADHD Coaching Agency in memory of Henry, on Saturday 14 November at 7pm at The Haven Centre, Crawley. Tickets: adhdcoachingagency.com/fundraiser

Read it online here: https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/parents-teenage-son-died-su***de-37783915

Thank you for every message and share since yesterday. You lot are brilliant.

If you're struggling, call Samaritans free on 116 123 or text SHOUT to 85258.

***dePrevention

12/10/2026

4Tom -Online bereaved by su***de support group
Thursday October 29th 6pm
Register now
Yaki-Da Boi Project
The Jacob Abraham Foundation
Ginger Heart Foundation
Voluntary Action Merthyr Tydfil
BAGS for Strife
Comfort and Hope Bereavement Support
Cynon Wellbeing Coordinators
Taff Ely Wellbeing Coordinators
Interlink RCT
BAVO
Kirsty Needs Foundation
The ;cky Foundation
fans
Su***de&Co
Ogmore Valley Su***de Awareness CIC
Survivors of Su***de Bereavement Support Association Inc (SOSBSA)

Have you lost someone you love to su***de ? Join us online and meet with others who understand this complex loss .

10/10/2026

World Mental Health Day - 10 October

This year's theme is "Lived experiences heard: real voices, real change."

Sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is listen. Taking the time to check in with someone, have a conversation, or simply let them know they're not alone can make a real difference.

Mental health matters to all of us.

If you're struggling, please remember that support is available.