10/10/2026
Yesterday, our community has experienced a huge loss, as Michelle Bender has passed away. Michelle meant so much to so many people. For CMF, she was an ally, a supporter, an Honorary Queen, and mostly, she was family.
Over many years, Michelle support was consistent and steadfast. No matter what we needed, she would always be there. She hosted our drag brunch at her amazing restaurant, Five Star for many of the years that we held it.
We made so many memories throwing events together, collaborating on projects, and enjoying the ups and downs of life over some of her amazing cooking.
Our hearts go out to her family, and everyone affected by Michelle’s passing. We will continue to honor her legacy at CMF and we will never forget the mark she made.
We love you Michelle. Fly high!
From the Board and Court of the Crape Myrtle Festival, and on behalf of our drag brunches Justin Natvig and Carlos O’Neal.