First Candle

First Candle Preventing SUID/SIDS through trusted safe sleep education and empowering communities most at risk.

We also provide compassionate bereavement support for families facing the unimaginable. Programs & Services

The primary focus areas for First Candle are:

Research:
Over the course of the past two decades, First Candle has expended more than $4 million to fund cutting-edge research projects at medical institutions throughout the U.S. Under the auspices of our Medical and Scientific Advisory Cou

ncil, an internationally recognized body of senior level pediatric scientists, we continue to provide a single, focused outlet for individuals and organizations interested in supporting research to further our understanding of SIDS, stillbirth and other causes of sudden, unexpected infant deaths (SUID). Education and Awareness:
We supply comprehensive, quality assured information on infant health and survival to expectant parents, grandparents and the general public through a toll-free information hotline and our website. We also provide technical assistance and risk reduction education and training to professional and community organizations interested in infant health. Last year alone, we distributed more than 200,000 brochures and fact sheets. Family Support:
First Candle provides bereavement services to help families through the difficult time after the loss of a child. Through the distribution of grief packets, peer support training, conferences, referrals to local support services and our web site, we help families connect and share experiences. Bilingual crisis counselors are also available 24-hours per day, seven days per week through our toll-free crisis hotline. In just one year, First Candle reached more than 13,000 people devastated by the tragedy of infant death.

06/05/2026

Who’s in the room when safe sleep gets discussed?

If it’s only moms, we’re missing half the picture.

Our Let’s Talk Community Chats program includes dads — intentionally. Because research shows that babies are safer when all their caregivers have the same information.

We partner with trusted community providers to deliver this education where families already are. No judgment. No lecturing. Just real conversations that meet people where they’re at.

Car seats are designed to keep babies safe on the road — but they're not safe for sleep. 🚗When a baby falls asleep in a ...
06/04/2026

Car seats are designed to keep babies safe on the road — but they're not safe for sleep. 🚗

When a baby falls asleep in a car seat, their head can fall forward, compressing their airway. This is called positional asphyxia, and it can happen quickly and silently.
Young babies don't yet have the neck strength to lift or reposition their heads which means even a short nap in a car seat outside of a moving vehicle can become dangerous.

The safe sleep guideline: If your baby falls asleep in the car, transfer them to a firm, flat sleep surface as soon as you can. And if you're in the car, try to keep trips short when baby needs to sleep.

You deserve to know the why behind safe sleep guidelines, not just the rules. 💛

06/03/2026

These infant deaths are preventable! But parents aren’t hearing the ways in which they can be prevented because they’re not getting the safety messages at the right time or the right people.

We’re working to change that. And we know we’re succeeding. Learn more at our site.

This is shocking
05/31/2026

This is shocking

A recent Pew Research Center analysis found that 52% of American women ages 20 to 39 do not have children. That is up from 46% in 2018. The shift is real. And it is accelerating.

Here is what the numbers do not say. They do not say these women hate children. They do not say they are selfish. They say something simpler and more uncomfortable.

Motherhood has become harder to afford. Childcare costs more than rent in most states. Housing is out of reach. Wages have not kept up. Climate anxiety is real. And the expectation that women should do it all with no village has worn thin.

Many of these women are not rejecting children forever. They are delaying until conditions improve. But conditions are not improving. So the delay becomes permanent. And a generation quietly decides that a good life does not require motherhood.

This is not about blaming anyone. It is about listening. When half of young women choose to wait or opt out entirely, the problem is not their priorities. The problem is the structure that makes motherhood feel impossible.

Build a world where raising children does not require sacrifice of everything else. And watch the numbers change.

Each of our NYC Marathon team members has a story of why they chose to run with us.  Please meet Alex:Hi there I'm  Alex...
05/29/2026

Each of our NYC Marathon team members has a story of why they chose to run with us. Please meet Alex:

Hi there I'm Alex Castaneda, mama of 3 wonderful kids. I am running for First Candle because of the passion First Candle has for educating, advocating and especially supporting families in the grieving process impacted by SIDS. When I was pregnant with my first son, complications arose and I had to be induced early and he did not make it through the labor process. Going through the grief of losing a little one will never leave me, and I want to support a cause that helps families prevent feeling that loss, and also help grieving families feel supported. Running has always been a passion for me, and I can't wait to run 26.2 miles through beautiful New York and having my angel baby Noah by my side the whole time.

If you would like to support our team, head over to the link in our bio.

Happy to announce that Edna Martin Christian Center   Parents as Teachers team completed our Straight Talk for Infant Sa...
05/27/2026

Happy to announce that Edna Martin Christian Center Parents as Teachers team completed our Straight Talk for Infant Safe Sleep training and are now certified to educate their team members and parents in their programs.

Our Straight Talk training not only incorporates the safe sleep guidelines but our conversations approach, understanding and respecting cultural norms, social determinants of health and lived experiences. We also discuss trauma informed grief support for families who have experienced a previous stillbirth or infant loss.

To learn more on how to bring Straight Talk Training to your organization head over to link in bio.

05/25/2026

Here’s what our program Lets Talk Community Chats are accomplishing!

Learn more about our safe sleep program at link in bio.

Paid leave is about safe sleep.  Please take a moment to read what's happening.
05/21/2026

Paid leave is about safe sleep. Please take a moment to read what's happening.

Paid family leave isn’t just an economic policy. It’s a safe sleep issue — and the families who lose it most are the ones who can least afford the consequences.   A recent New York Times report confirmed what many of us in the maternal and child health field have been watching with concern: p...

Was someone there to support you when you were grieving?  Now we need your help to support newly bereaved parents. Link ...
05/19/2026

Was someone there to support you when you were grieving?

Now we need your help to support newly bereaved parents.

Link to sign up in our bio.

DM me with questions!

Meet our amazing mother/daughter duo running on our NYC Marathon team!We are Shannon and Hannah Salvestrin, a mother/dau...
05/15/2026

Meet our amazing mother/daughter duo running on our NYC Marathon team!

We are Shannon and Hannah Salvestrin, a mother/daughter duo taking on our first marathon in honor of our son and brother Austin, who we lost 30 years ago to SUIDS. Shannon and her husband Rich found out they were expecting Hannah only a few weeks after losing Austin.
His loss changed the course of our lives, and even after all this time, he is still at the center of so much of who we are. A few years ago we came across First Candle and couldn’t help but think about how meaningful the specific support they provide would have been in those early days of grief.

2026 marks Austin’s 30th angel-versary. As we anticipate this milestone, we feel compelled to honor his life in a way that is not only deeply personal to us but also raises awareness for and brings attention to the ~3700 families who face the devastating and unexpected reality of losing a young child every single year. Running the NYC Marathon has always felt like an intimidating goal, one that pushed us out of our comfort zone, but doing it together and connecting it to Austin through First Candle gives every step that much more purpose.

We will carry Austin with us through every mile, while also running for the families who are facing this kind of loss right now. This is our way of honoring Austin and supporting an organization that shows up for people in their most difficult moments.

Please support our team! Donate at link in bio.

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New Canaan, CT
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