08/20/2026
CoreTalk
Have you ever felt like you were asking God for help but still trying to hold everything together yourself?
You pray for Him to lead you, but you already have a direction in mind. You ask Him to work things out, but you have decided what the answer should look like. You ask for peace, but you are afraid of what might happen if you truly release control.
I have been thinking about how easy it is to trust God enough to ask for His help, but still struggle to place the whole situation in His hands.
While I was teaching class, the Lord gave me this illustration.
Imagine someone handing you a tangled necklace and asking you to untangle it, but they refuse to let go of one end.
Think about how frustrating that would be and how much harder they would make the process. Every time you tried to loosen one knot, they might pull it tighter. You could not turn the necklace, examine the whole chain, or freely move what needed to be moved.
They trust you enough to ask for help, but not enough to place the whole necklace in your hands.
I wonder how often we approach God the same way. We ask Him to untangle the mess, but we keep holding tightly to one side. Then, when He begins moving something we did not expect, we pull against Him.
“Trust in the LORD with all your heart...” -Proverbs 3:5a (BSB)
Maybe the process feels harder because we are asking God for help while still trying to stay in control.
What would happen if you stopped pulling against His hands and placed the whole thing in them?