06/15/2026
Nine years ago today, my life changed forever. I had found my biological family in Greece and I was on my way, accompanied by Heather Kerr, to meet them for the first time - my biological mother, my aunts and uncles, and my 12 first cousins and their families. Once, I never imagined I'd ever search for and find my biological family. Now, I can't imagine my life without them. Grateful to God for his goodness and for giving me this precious gift.
Post from June 15, 2017 - I will begin this post by apologizing for the long length, but it's something that cannot be said in just a few words. Most of my close friends know my adoption story. And all of you on Facebook know how much I adored my parents, Jay and Ruth Forrest. After their deaths, I felt very alone and I decided to search to see if I might have any siblings in Greece. I never searched for my birth mother or any other relatives before because I didn't think I'd find anyone. After all, the one document from the orphanage in my parents' files said that my name was Eftychia (the Greek goddess of happiness and good fortune) and I was a foundling of unknown parents. But through a miraculous set of circumstances, which included receiving a wealth of documents from the orphanage archives in Athens, in barely two months I have found my birth mother, alive and well at age 79. I've discovered in the past several weeks that her three sisters and one brother are still living and that I have 12 first cousins.
Bobby and I had planned a 25th anniversary trip to France, Italy and Greece with the kids, at the end of September, before I even started really searching. After talking to my birth mother on the phone with the help of a lady in her village of Stranoma who speaks English, part of me wanted to jump on a plane that very moment. After that phone call, my sweet husband said, "We're not millionaires so it's hard to say money is no object. But it's your mother, so money is really no object. You need to go now. Buy the tickets and take Heather with you. Justin and I will still be able to go in the fall and see everyone. "
So as I write this, Heather and I are on our way to Athens, Greece. Then on to Stronama, a beautiful little village in the mountains above Nafpaktos, where my birth mother, Charikleia Noula, still lives and my cousin, Konstantinos Noulas is the president of the village council. One of my first cousins, Vassilis Noulas, says he will bring my mother and will be meeting us at the airport in Athens when we arrive tomorrow. They all seem as excited as I am. And the best part? They said they had been searching for me for years without any luck!
I will be chronicling my journey on Facebook. My fondest wish is that it will give hope to others who, like me thought there was no one to find and show that it is never to late to look. I give all the glory to God, as He has so sweetly reminded me that it is all about the timing - His divine timing, not mine. This, in NO way, lessens the love I have for my parents. Just as God's power to love is infinite, so also should be ours. And God has graciously given me a whole new family to love. Somehow, I know Mom and Dad are smiling down from Heaven. Your prayers are appreciated, as this is an emotional week for me. Praise God from whom all blessings flow - grateful for all of the blessings I have received and cannot wait for the ones to come! Love you all!