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For business partners who are butting heads, here are three things that actually help.Book it, don't ambush it.Never sta...
05/10/2026

For business partners who are butting heads, here are three things that actually help.

Book it, don't ambush it.

Never start a big conversation at 4.50pm on a Friday. Give notice. Off-site if you can.
Take turns, properly.

One person talks. The other's only job is to understand, then repeat back what they heard before responding. Slow, but it works.

Agree a time-out before you need one.
Whoever calls it names a return time. Twenty minutes minimum. Don't spend the break rehearsing your case, go for a walk instead.

Difference raised early is information. Raised two years later, it's a grievance with interest.
Read the full article: https://firststeps.nz/why-business-partners-fight-and-what-to-do-about-it/

Two mates. Two siblings. Someone with the trade, someone with the spreadsheet.Business partnerships in Aotearoa usually ...
01/10/2026

Two mates. Two siblings. Someone with the trade, someone with the spreadsheet.

Business partnerships in Aotearoa usually start in fusion, same goals, finishing each other's sentences. That's what gets you through year one.

Then real life shows up. One of you wants to scale and borrow. The other's just had a baby and wants a steady wage and some sleep. Neither one is wrong.

But after years of agreeing, difference stops feeling like growth. It starts feeling personal.

The businesses that survive aren't the ones without conflict. They're the ones who learned to have the hard conversation before the silence sets in.

Read the full article on our website now: https://firststeps.nz/why-business-partners-fight-and-what-to-do-about-it/

Invoicing piles up until it's a crisis. A client call leaves you wrecked for the rest of the day. Deadlines sneak up out...
29/09/2026

Invoicing piles up until it's a crisis. A client call leaves you wrecked for the rest of the day. Deadlines sneak up out of nowhere.

None of that means you're bad at running a business. It usually means the systems weren't built for how your brain works.

Work With It is a free guide for neurodivergent business owners, with twelve workarounds across four areas: starting and stopping tasks, remembering and time, admin and people, sensory and energy. No diagnosis needed to use any of it.

Take the two-minute check to find the two or three that apply to you.

Six hours in and you forgot to eat again. Or you've been staring at a task you want to do, just can't start.If you're se...
23/09/2026

Six hours in and you forgot to eat again. Or you've been staring at a task you want to do, just can't start.

If you're self-employed with an ADHD or autistic brain, the business gives you no scaffolding. No colleague who notices you've gone quiet, no manager breaking the big job into steps. Everything lands on you.

Work With It is a free guide with twelve small workarounds for the moments that cost neurodivergent business owners the most: starting and stopping, remembering and time, admin and people, sensory and energy.

Pick the one moment costing you most this month. Try one workaround for a fortnight.

Find your workaround: https://firststeps.nz/work-with-it-neurodivergent-business-owners/

"I need to push this deadline back" is a hard sentence to send when you're a business of one.If you've ever sat staring ...
21/09/2026

"I need to push this deadline back" is a hard sentence to send when you're a business of one.

If you've ever sat staring at a client email, rewriting the same message five times, this one's for you.

Spot It. Say It. includes 9 fill-in-the-blank scripts for the exact client conversations solo operators dread most, plus what to do if a client pushes back.
Free, and made for people running their own show.

Get the scripts here: https://firststeps.nz/spot-it-say-it/

Ever caught yourself dreading a client email you used to answer without thinking twice? That's often the first sign of o...
14/09/2026

Ever caught yourself dreading a client email you used to answer without thinking twice?

That's often the first sign of overload. Not burnout as a big dramatic collapse, but small shifts that build up quietly when you're running your business solo.

Spot It. Say It. is a free guide for sole traders and solo operators. It walks you through a 7-point self-check to catch overload early, plus ready-to-use scripts for the client conversations you've been putting off.

Your answers stay private, right in your browser. No diagnosis, just a starting point.

Take the free 7-point self-check: https://firststeps.nz/spot-it-say-it/

Some signs the "easy to work with" thing has gone too far, and what to do about it.Watch for:You say yes and feel your s...
09/09/2026

Some signs the "easy to work with" thing has gone too far, and what to do about it.
Watch for:

You say yes and feel your stomach drop. You rehearse conversations on the drive home that never actually happened. You apologise before you speak in meetings.

Try this instead:
Kill the reflex yes. Install a delay. "Let me check what I've got on and come back to you this afternoon." That's it.

Start small. Don't open with the conversation you've avoided for three years. Decline something minor first.

Expect the hangover. After you say no, you'll feel anxious for a while. That's the old alarm going off, not evidence. It fades faster each time.

Check your motive. Before you agree to something, ask: am I doing this freely, or am I doing it to manage how they'll feel about me?
Read the full article: https://firststeps.nz/nice-isnt-free-what-it-costs-to-be-easy-to-work-with/

Nicest person in the office. Snappiest person at home.Sound familiar?You spend the whole day being patient with people w...
08/09/2026

Nicest person in the office. Snappiest person at home.
Sound familiar?

You spend the whole day being patient with people who haven't earned it. By the time you walk through your own front door there's nothng left in the tank for the people who have.

It's not a contradiction. It's a budget.

Being agreeable at work often means people are surprised when you're upset, because they had no idea anything was wrong. If your unhappiness is consistently news to everyone around you, you've been managing the outside so well that nobody's had a chance to help.

You can be a kind person and still take up space. The two have never been in conflict.

Read the full article: https://firststeps.nz/nice-isnt-free-what-it-costs-to-be-easy-to-work-with/

Recovery at work isn't just about compliance, it's a business priority. Last year ACC New Zealand partnered with 140+ NZ...
27/07/2026

Recovery at work isn't just about compliance, it's a business priority. Last year ACC New Zealand partnered with 140+ NZ businesses to test what actually improves recovery outcomes for injured employees. Now the results are in.

Join us for a lunchtime panel with ACC and three business leaders from the Recovery at Work trial. They'll share what worked, what surprised them, and how thinking shifted, from leadership buy-in to building real internal capability.

Bring your questions for the Q&A.

Central: Tuesday, 25 August
đź“Ť Level 8, 90 Symonds Street, Grafton

South: Tuesday, 22 September
đź“Ť33 Lambie Drive, Manukau

Book Central- https://aucklandchamber.co.nz/event/acc-recovery-at-work-forum-central/

Book South- https://aucklandchamber.co.nz/event/acc-recovery-at-work-forum-south/

In this webinar, Registered Psychologist Hannah Young explores the foundations of healthy relationships… from understand...
04/06/2026

In this webinar, Registered Psychologist Hannah Young explores the foundations of healthy relationships… from understanding emotional triggers and attachment styles to setting effective boundaries.

Learn why relationship struggles can feel so overwhelming, how to recognise your patterns, and practical tools to build stronger, more resilient connections in both your personal and professional life.

Hit the link in to listen to the full webinar: https://vimeo.com/1079183381?fl=pl&fe=sh

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