10/30/2026
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Richard Loud is a noise control engineer, a marathon runner and a father of two from Ballston Spa, New York. In late 2024, just before his 60th birthday, he was diagnosed with stage II breast cancer.
It became real in the oncologist’s office. He was crying, head in his hands, when the nurse navigator asked if he was upset because breast cancer would make him feel less masculine.
“I was like, no, I’m upset because I have cancer. I don’t care what kind of cancer it is. I don’t want to have it, and I don’t want anybody to know.”
For six weeks he told almost no one. Next came scans to see if it had spread past his breast and lymph node.
“Every one of those scans was like opening Pandora’s box, right? I didn’t know which one, if any of those were going to tell me that, you know, I might be dying.”
Once he learned his cancer was curable, he joined a clinical trial at Dana-Farber in place of chemotherapy. The treatment took his testosterone to zero. He ran four marathons during it anyway, each one harder than the last.
“Frankly, it was awful. But I wasn’t going to stop.”
In June 2025 he had a mastectomy on his right side. Today there is no evidence of disease.
“I say it’s like I got a winky chest. I have a ni**le on one side and a wink on the other.”
“I will flaunt my scar to anybody that wants to see it. In fact, I lifted my shirt in the middle of Fifth Avenue in New York City to show some people who said they wanted to see my scar.”
He learned to talk openly after he quit drinking at the start of the pandemic. He handled cancer the same way.
“Sharing your story, talking about the cancer, takes the power away from the cancer.”
“If you just keep it inside, it’s like you have another cancer going. You have the physical cancer and then you have this whole psychological cancer going on in there too.”
Men write to him now.
“I’ve had guys tell me, because of you telling your story, I took action. And that keeps me going.”
“Men can get breast cancer. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. It’s not a question of masculinity.”
This is Richard Loud. This is Baring Scars. Follow his story on Instagram at .dude.with.breast.cancer.
Image: “Richard Loud” by Brian Fitzgerald