11/01/2026
Swimming Upstream
Pastor Sioux Mallard
November 1st, 2026
How ready are you to sail the open seas of life? What do you need to look for? Are you prepared? What happens when the stormy season hits? Lots of questions that do need answering.
I read an article about boating. Plus, this past hurricane season, we had experienced hurricanes barreling up the east coast, folks had to prepare their “boats” and homes for a potential onslaught. Our southern shores and islands got the brunt of it all, causing death and destruction. And these continuous fires! Fortunately, it wasn’t as bad on the continental US as it could have been. And this might sound strange, but I found a lot of similarity with being prepared at sea and our spiritual life. I know, now you think I am really losing it! Patience, my friends and I will explain.
I guess your preparedness depends on the danger you put yourself in. If you spend a lot of time way out to sea, weather changes could cause waves that might capsize your boat, cold waters would cause hypothermia. It could take a long time for a rescue boat to find you and save you. Perhaps you think, “I never go out that far, I stick to the coastline.” Well, coastlines vary – some are smooth beaches; but many are rocky, treacherous or even just plain unpredictable. You might ask the question “do I need a raft?” – well, maybe not all the time. But wouldn’t it be great to have one when you need it?
What constitutes a rocky coastline or being way out to sea in your life? How about acting outside the legal limits? Hopefully, none of you are criminals but being outside the legal limits could be something as simple as speeding or finding something that doesn’t belong to you and keeping it. Ever drive after drinking too much? Perhaps infidelity or cheating on a test or saying something unkind about another person. Perhaps you lost your job or are being evicted. It might feel like your boat has capsized. Okay, most of us have probably done things we aren’t particularly proud of.
I suppose you think I am going to tell you to turn to God when stormy seas hit. Well, not exactly. Yes, God will accept you when no one else is your friend, but I don’t suggest that you live on the edge unprepared. You need to start someplace, start out in small ways. When you are at your lowest, it is probably the hardest time to pull yourself up. You need to put together an arsenal before things happen to you or your family. We didn’t always listen to what our parents told us, we had to learn by ourselves. Some things are not because of ourselves, but we need to be prepared just the same.
Recognizing that you haven’t been completely honest with yourself or forgiving yourself for transgressions are good starts. But did you learn anything from your errors? Did you do it again? Will you do it again? How many times do you have to go down the wrong road before you get back on track?
Back to our lifeboat, we’d probably need potable water to drink, flares, water markers, flashlights or a waterproof radio and spare batteries, food, extra prescriptions, flotation devices, maybe a cell phone charger. Duct tape – got to have duct tape! Insurance would be helpful. We should read up on the rules of the seas, there are standards to follow and charts for navigation. How do you relate this kind of preparedness to your spiritual life? I don’t have the answers for you; you need to figure them out.
We can all work together to start and I’m not accusing you of doing wrong, only you can be the judge. I am suggesting that you be ready as life throws things at you fast. Start gathering the things you need one at a time. You come to church regularly which is a beginning (this might be your potable water or navigation charts?). You pick up some good pointers on how to live your life better – some reinforcements (flares?). I think our meditations help us to reflect on our inner self (extra batteries?). Just talking with other like-minded people that can lend a good influence for you (flotation devices?). Remember your parents told you – you are who your friends are (hmmm… insurance?)!
What is important is that you prepare yourself just in case you have a problem in life. You act responsibly, you help others to stay away from danger, you pay attention to your spiritual life. If you never learned the Lord’s Prayer, it can’t help you when you have a need. If you don’t practice the Serenity Prayer, you might not have a guide on how to react when stuff happens. We all learn certain rituals to help us when we are in the foxholes of life. Singing a song you heard at church is comforting when you are feeling all alone or in need of guidance.
Church is like that. You come in hopes that you will receive a message that will help you be stronger during the coming of the week. I look forward to meditation as it forces me to stop – even for just three to five minutes – to drift off, to find something inside myself, an inner peace. Then someone jerks the line and reels me back in.
Having faith is only part of the recipe, you need to work on making things happen. When a task is large enough to make us lose our hearts or lose our way, we need a life line to pull us back. At any age or any stage of your life, it is so very easy to lose your way. When you think no one else cares about you or you feel burdened by others, you’ve lost your way. When you are so afraid of losing your jobs that you forget to do your job, you’ve lost your way. How you work though the day, depends entirely on you. Do not lose your way.
Don’t be contemptuous of inevitable change, unwilling to be moved by the fresh winds of the Spirit, there is plenty out there to distract the faithful with claims of correctness to mask their own intellectual and spiritual arrogance. Watch for false pretenses that cheat you of your freedom. They can weaken you at the very moment when you most need liberating power.
As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't ever supposed to let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.
I want each of you to make a valiant effort in making yourself ready. Be ever courageous in your daily life. Magic is there if you want to find magic. If you aren’t listening, you won’t hear it.
I love you all!
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