10/30/2026
Have you heard of the Loneliness Epidemic?
It’s been formally highlighted by former U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthy, who wrote an advisory called Our Epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation, published in 2023.
Half of adults in our country experience loneliness, a condition associated with greater risk of heart disease, stroke, depression, and anxiety.
In fact, social disconnection comes with a mortality impact similar to smoking up to 15 ci******es per day.
Why does this matter for our communities?
Dr. Murthy called on the American people to “build a movement to mend the social fabric of our nation.”
The advisory cites many causes, including a decline in community involvement starting in the 1970s. By 2018, only 16% of Americans reported feeling very attached to their local community.
While individual factors impact connection, so can community and societal factors.
Things like gathering spaces, housing, economies, community organizations, and transportation all shape opportunities for building human connection—or inhibiting it.
Communities require social infrastructure, meaning physical assets (libraries and parks), programs (volunteer organizations and member associations), and policies (transportation and housing) to create a foundation for social connection.
So what can we do?
The advisory lists six pillars to advance social connection in communities:
1. Strengthen social infrastructure in local communities
2. Enact pro-connection public policies
3. Mobilize the health sector
4. Reform digital environments
5. Deepen our knowledge
6. Build a culture of connection
Clearly, some of these pillars are beyond the scope of a community leadership program like Leadership Fauquier.
But others fall right in our wheelhouse, especially strengthening social infrastructure and building a culture of connection.
The report encourages us to “Cultivate values of kindness, respect, service, and commitment to one another” and “Model connection values in positions of leadership and influence.”
Those two tasks fall right into the servant leadership concepts we promote and our mission of creating a thriving community through informed and connected leaders.
To strengthen infrastructure, the report recommends investment in “local institutions that bring people together.”
That’s exactly what we do.
We get people out of their silos and industry echo chambers and connect them, building an ever-expanding network of alumni, guest speakers, and community partners.
One of our most repeated pieces of feedback is that Leadership Fauquier gives people a chance to meet people they would never otherwise encounter.
The advisory goes further with a list of recommendations for community-based organizations. They suggest that organizations:
âś…Create opportunities and spaces for inclusive social connection
âś…Embed social connection in policies, practices, programs, and evaluations
âś…Actively seek and build partnerships with other community institutions to create a culture of connection in the broader community
We work with dozens of organizations each year and explicitly work on social connection skills through the lens of the 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership and exercises in our opening retreat.
Leadership Fauquier can’t solve the Loneliness Epidemic. But we play a vital role, along with community partners, in addressing these issues right here in Fauquier County.
Source: U.S. Surgeon General's Advisory, Our Epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation (2023)