10/19/2026
Kiki is back.
We're not a rescue that believes in publicly shaming people, but we ARE a rescue that believes in education, accountability, and honest conversations about responsible pet ownership.
Kiki's family initially asked to return her because, between the kids' sports, late-night Taekwondo, work schedules, and constant travel, they felt she wasn't getting the time she deserved. They told us she was a wonderful dog and there was nothing wrong with her. We understood, and we agreed to take her back.
As we've been sharing, adoptions have stalled, and our foster homes are full. It took us TWO WEEKS to find an available foster and coordinate transportation for Kiki. We were scheduled to pick her up Saturday.
Friday evening, we received an email saying the family's stepson had decided he wanted Kiki and would take responsibility for her. Apparently, the situation had taught the kids a lesson about pet ownership, so they no longer needed to return her.
Three hours later, we received another email asking us to disregard that message because they still wanted to return her.
And this is where we need to talk about something important.
✨‼️ A dog is not a bargaining chip, a teaching tool, or a way to test whether your child is ready for responsibility. ✨‼️
YOU are the adult. The adult adopts the dog. Children can absolutely participate in caring for a pet, but the ultimate responsibility belongs to the adults. Kids get busy, schedules change, and extracurricular activities pile up. Your dog's future shouldn't depend on whether your child decides they want to step up this week.
When you contact a rescue to return a dog, we don't just open a door and move on. We coordinate fosters, arrange transportation, communicate with volunteers, and shuffle limited resources to make it happen. Those two weeks weren't spent doing nothing. They were spent trying to find a safe place for Kiki in a rescue community where everyone is already full.
We're not asking people to feel guilty for circumstances changing. Sometimes returns are necessary, and that's why we have a return policy. But please don't treat a living animal or the rescue helping them as something you can change your mind about on a whim. Our time matters. Our fosters' time matters. And the resources we need to save the next dog matter.
We aren't sharing this to invite anyone to attack Kiki's family. That's not what we're about. We're sharing it because these are conversations people need to have BEFORE bringing an animal home.
Please think beyond how cute a puppy is or how much your children want a dog. Think about your work schedule, your travel plans, your finances, your family's commitments, and what happens when life gets busy. Think about the fact that this animal will depend on you for years, even when your calendar is full and your priorities change.
And if you genuinely cannot provide what your pet needs anymore, please reach out to your rescue. We will work with you. That's what we're here for. But please understand that returning an animal is not an effortless process, especially when rescues everywhere are full and adoption applications have slowed to a crawl.
Please share Kiki's story and check out our available dogs. Every adoption opens space for another dog in need, and right now, we desperately need those spaces. 🙏🏻🧡