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Legacy of Hay In 2015 Haylee was diagnosed with a complete AV canal heart defect and pulmonary hypertension. This is her ph journey .

Haylee Jade York

PASSED AWAY ON
Tuesday, February 11, 2020. Please help spread awareness

E-Mail [email protected] A few months ago we received the worst news of our life our vibrant funny happy full of life three year old was sick not just just sick but extremely ill pulmonary hypertension is something I never even hear of until that day we where in shock it took a couple months for it all to really start sinking in and research to really understand the reality of the situation the reality is this is a progressive non curable life threatening disease in which medications can help with symptoms and slow down progression but can not rid the condition over time the stress on your heart becomes to much and in Hay she already has a defect in her heart that St this time can not be fixed because of the lungs this disease is rare and a lot is unknown as everyone responds different to treatments all that is know is if they can't fix Haylees heart she will will not live until adult good if they can she may live into adult hood but for how long is unclear she will have to remain on medications for the rest of her life many activities we all take For granted will be difficult for her wearing oxygen daily will be in her future having children will not be possible the not knowing is terrible hearing now some people are living with this decades is not very confronting when your child is only three decades for her is early 20's but we will not take this lying down we will fight hope and pray everyday for a miracle because sitting back and watching Haylee die is not an option we have to do everything we can to save her she's to great of a person not to love s fill life making people smile she continues to inspire us and we will never give up on her

Hey guys it’s Haylee’s big sister here! Please please please please go to the Goddard page and like my door! Th...
10/21/2026

Hey guys it’s Haylee’s big sister here! Please please please please go to the Goddard page and like my door! The rainbow fish one! I worked rlly hard on it!!! And please share my door and tell your friends to vote we’re running out of time! Make sure you like it on the original post or it doesn’t count

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Every new memory is hard without her 💔 even the things we look forward to the most always hold a bit of sadness because ...
10/19/2026

Every new memory is hard without her 💔 even the things we look forward to the most always hold a bit of sadness because she should be here. I can’t even believe in Feb she will be gone as long as she was here.💔

Please take this 👇🏼advice to heart… 💜‼️‼️‼️‼️Do not skip your child’s annual well visits with their Pediatrician . This ...
10/14/2026

Please take this 👇🏼advice to heart… 💜‼️‼️‼️‼️

Do not skip your child’s annual well visits with their Pediatrician . This was 11 years ago , at Haylee’s 3 year check up . She didn’t even look sick , but she was actually dying.

This was the start of the events that lead to her devastating diagnosis of a Complete Aterial Ventricle Heart Defect and Pulmonary Hypertension.

This check up was the first time her pediatrician or any doctor Hay had ever seen(which where many) had heard her heart murmur. This is why annual check ups are so important ... I just cringe every time a parent says well my kids haven’t been sick so I haven’t taken them to well apts , or I’ve just taken them to Urgent care when they are sick ....

YOU DON’T HAVE TO LOOK OR ACT SICK TO BE DYING!!!! Hay is proof of that ... please just remember her story and if something doesn’t feel right it probably isn’t .

Hear warrior heart angel Haylee will always be loved 💜
10/08/2026

Hear warrior heart angel Haylee will always be loved 💜

💙💚Today was 2026 Celebrate Life Run/Walk. This is an annual walk put in by Mid-America Transplant as a way to honor dono...
10/05/2026

💙💚Today was 2026 Celebrate Life Run/Walk. This is an annual walk put in by Mid-America Transplant as a way to honor donors, celebrate life with recipients, support those still waiting on transplant, and inspire others others to says yes to giving the gift of sight, mobility and life.💚💙

💚💙Pulmonary Hypertension has no cure, is progressive, and ultimately terminal. Once many ph pts have exhausted medication options to slow the progression of PH their only chance of survival is to receive a double lung transplant. PH was Haylee’s secondary diagnosis with the primary diagnosis, the cause of her ph being a Complete Arterial Ventricle heart defect. Most of the time when babies have a CAVHD shortly after birth the holes in their hearts can be closed before more serious conditions develop. In Hay’s case her CAVD went undetected until age 3 ½ which caused her to develop PH. Her ph made it impossible to simply go in and close the holes in her heart, she wouldn’t make it through the operation, as by her diagnosis time her ph had already advanced to a severe stage. We were told if the aggressive medication regimen did not improve her ph numbers and it continued to advance her only option may be to do a rare double transplant of both heart and lungs.💚💙

💚💙We of course were terrified at the thought of her possibly having to go through a life and death procedure. Our hopes were the medications would help improve her PH and we wouldn’t have to travel down the transplant road. We however were more than willing to take it on if needed as we would do anything to try and save Haylee’s life. This is when we began to learn more about transplant, so we would know more about what we may be facing, to support our PHriends who have or would receive new lungs and so we could raise awareness to the importance of being a donor. 🫀🫁

💙💚our thoughts were always only Hay being a recipient and never a thought of her being a donor. For the following reason , one we never wanted to believe treatment wouldn’t help, and two we always thought with her medical diagnosis she wouldn’t be able to be a donor. 🫀🫁

💚💙 Of course we didn’t receive a miracle and treatment did not work for Haylee and we lost her on February 11, 2020. The night she passed the hospital never asked if we wanted her to be a donor. Later that night we were stunned to receive a call from Mid America Transplant asking us if we were willing to have her donate. I told them that she had already been taken to the funeral home, thinking it was too late for her to donate. They said that was no problem as they could pick her up there and still harvest donations. I then asked “what about her conditions wouldn’t those disqualify her for being a donor ?” They explained there would still be several donations she could give. It wasn’t even a second thought then we knew Hay as she always did in life would want to help people anyway she could. We agreed to her becoming a donor.💚💙

💙💚They were able to harvest Haylee’s corneas, knee cartilage and heart valves. Since we found out Hay helped improve the mobility of someone with the gift of her knee cartilage and she gave two people the gift of sight, a 56 year old female from CA and a 19 year old male from CA. I wrote a lengthy letter sharing with them the extraordinary soul that Haylee was, unfortunately their forwarding info was not made available which often is the case for cornea transplants. We are disappointed and would have loved to share who Hay was beyond her generic deception of a 7 year old female from MO. Also we would have loved to find out who her recipients were beyond theirs. I instead choose to share the letter I wrote here so others may be inspired to reach out to their donor or recipient. 💙💚

💚💙 Hay was simply the best person ever. She was kind everyday to everyone. Our hearts have been filled with love hearing how She's touched so many lives. We are so proud and know she is so happy she was able to give someone the ability to see the beauty the world has to offer. At the beach she once said “sissy, sit down and enjoy what the God gave you!” We can only hope that her recipients have been able to do just that and watch the waves crash into the sand. 🌊💙

💙💚Today was a beautiful day to honor Hay and walk in support of other donor families, in celebration of new life for recipients, and in support of those still waiting to receive their gift. We hope by continuing to share Hay’s journey she may inspire others to follow her lead and make their last act their best act. Give the gift of mobility, sight and life.💚💙

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10/01/2026
Today we heard 38 heart angels unique impactful stories of courage as they were honored during the Beads of Courage Cere...
09/27/2026

Today we heard 38 heart angels unique impactful stories of courage as they were honored during the Beads of Courage Ceremony. We thank Eden’s Army and everyone at The Heart Center at St. Louis Children's Hospital who put together this event to honor our angels.🫀💜🪽

Haylee’s beads of courage story. In Hay’s 4 and half year fight against PH she:

Was admitted to ICU -2 times
Had central lines placed/replaced- 2 times
Went to clinic visits- 11 times
Had dressing changes- 213 times
Had echos done- 14 times
Visit the ER- 8 times
Was in isolation- 1 time
24 hour IV infusions for 4 1/2 years= 1,555 days
Learned new meds- 6 times
Had over night hospital stays- 20 times
Gave blood- 60 times
Had IV- 7 times
Made OR trips- 7 times
Had anesthesia and respiratory support-7 times
Had ekg and chest X-rays- 33 times
Tube/cath placed removed- 7 times
Acts of courage- 66 times
Cardiac surgery- 7 times
Took 3 meds three times daily and had pump changes daily for 3 months then every other day= 1,520
Special accomplishments -7
Took oral doses of meds- 4,032 times
Mobility challenges including lay flat time, wheelchair and stair lift- 14
Transferred units- 1 time
And was discharged from hospital- 13 times
She earned a total of 7,203 beads.

I’m sure I missed some this was done all from memory. It is astonishing to see how much she really went through in those four and half years on paper and through her beads. No child should have to endure any of these things… Haylee never lost her smile either, not even for one day. I truly don’t know how she adapted so effortlessly to all she had too, I know for certain most adults could not do it without complaint. Lesson to be taken from Hay story take what battle your given and find a way to put your own sparkle on it. That’s what she did and she shined to her very last breath.

We are so very proud of you Hay you were a warrior and a true hero. 💫🌟✨

09/27/2026

Jordayn York did an amazing job talking about Hays Fairyland Extravaganza at today’s Beads of Courage ceremony 🫀💜🦁

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