11/04/2026
November is Homeless Awareness Month. Today, we want to open up an important conversation: Why would someone choose to sleep outside instead of going to a homeless shelter?
Even when shelter beds are available, some individuals remain outdoors. Here is why:
โค๏ธ 1. Safety & Fear: Past experiences with theft, violence, or intimidation in shelters make the familiar outdoors feel safer.
โค๏ธ 2. Mental Health: PTSD and severe anxiety can make tight spaces filled with strangers overwhelming.
โค๏ธ 3. Separation: Many shelters separate couples, breaking apart crucial emotional support systems.
โค๏ธ 4. Pets are Family: Pets provide security and comfort. Many would rather stay outside than abandon them.
โค๏ธ 5. Rules & Barriers: Rigid curfews and restrictions can lock out those working irregular hours.
โค๏ธ 6. Loss of Belongings: Leaving a backpack or cart unattended often means losing everything they own.
โค๏ธ 7. Personal Control: When youโve lost your home, job, and stability, choosing where you sleep is one of the few choices left.
โค๏ธ 8. Past Trauma: Negative past shelter experiences leave many unwilling to return.
Please understand: Sleeping outside isn't always a refusal of help or a comfortable choice. It is often a person trying to survive with incredibly limited options.
How Place of Refuge (POR) wants to help:
While we donโt have a physical building yet, our ultimate vision is to create a space that eliminates these exact barriers. We want to build a true refuge where no one has to choose between their safety, their pets, their loved ones, or their belongings just to get a roof over their head.
Will you stand with us this month to build a foundation of hope? Every gift brings us one step closer to securing a physical space that breaks down these barriers.
๐๐พSupport our vision and help us build a Refuge here: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=HGW325V8J8KFN
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