10/31/2026
Halloween can be hard when your baby is no longer here.
You may be thinking about the costume you would have picked out. The Halloween parties you would have attended. The little hand you would have held while trick-or-treating. The memories you thought you would be making this year.
There can be so many moments you imagined that never got the chance to happen. And that grief is real.
So if tonight feels too hard, please give yourself permission to protect your heart.
You can leave a white pumpkin on your porch as a subtle reminder that someone should be here who isn’t. You don’t have to answer the door. You can leave the lights off. You can go somewhere else for the evening. You can skip the party. You can stay home. You can make a quiet space to remember your baby. Or you can do something completely different that helps you get through the night.
There is no right way to spend Halloween after baby loss.
To every parent missing their baby tonight, please know that we are thinking of you and your baby. Today and always. 🤍