Sacred Heart Foundation

Sacred Heart Foundation The Foundation exists to provide opportunities for giving at Sacred Heart that will lead to a sustainable financial foundation at SHS.

With the leadership of the Board of Directors, the Foundation has established as their mission “to provide opportunities for giving at Sacred Heart that will lead to a sustainable financial foundation for generations to come.”

Here are ways you can help support the Foundation! Visit www.shfoundation.org/give-now for ways you can support the Foundation.

- Scholarships & Endowments (help a studen

t attend SHS by contributing to an already established Scholarship or Endowment!)

- Building Fund (This fund is used specifically for maintaining our facilities)

Questions on creating a Scholarship or Endowment? Or interested in additional giving opportunities? Contact Mark Brickson, Donor Relations for the Sacred Heart Foundation, at [email protected] or at 218-773-0877. Contact Denny DeMers, Executive Director for the Sacred Heart Foundation, at [email protected] or at 218-773-0877.

The Sacred Heart Foundation Family would like to express our prayers and condolences to the family and friends of Marsha...
09/04/2026

The Sacred Heart Foundation Family would like to express our prayers and condolences to the family and friends of Marsha Spoor, who went home to the Lord on September 2nd.

Grant her eternal rest, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. May her soul and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.

Marsha's family is encouraging people to give a gift to the Sacred Heart Foundation in her memory. You can visit our giving page here: https://www.sacredheartfoundationegf.net/give-shs-foundation

Our second Teacher Feature was released this week.  Please check out the Sacred Heart Story of Mike Marek - Student, Tea...
08/26/2026

Our second Teacher Feature was released this week. Please check out the Sacred Heart Story of Mike Marek - Student, Teacher, Coach, and Athletic Director.

Mike Marek: Seeing Who They Could Become

For Mike Marek, it might be easier to ask what part of Sacred Heart hasn't been part of his life.

He was born in a house that once stood where Miss Wilson's office is located today. He grew up across the alley from the sisters who staffed Sacred Heart's schools, attended Sacred Heart from first through twelfth grade, and then returned to spend 43 years teaching and coaching generations of students. His memories stretch from the old school buildings and classrooms filled with religious sisters to the devastation of the Flood of 1997, the temporary school on Highway 2, and finally the joy of walking into the new Sacred Heart building in 1999.

Mike was even part of the first first-grade class in the new elementary school built in 1958—82 first graders taught by just two sisters.

"Now that's dedicated teaching!" he recalled.

Decades later, Mike would understand that dedication from the other side of the classroom.

When the Flood of 1997 destroyed Sacred Heart's school buildings and whispers grew louder that the school might close permanently, Mike remembers a community determined not to let that happen. Sacred Heart found a temporary home, families and supporters committed themselves to rebuilding, and two years later a new school stood as what Mike describes as a visible reminder of God's faithfulness.

Those two years brought Scripture vividly to life for him. Mike joked that he came to understand "a little about the Israelites' journey through the desert."

But Sacred Heart made it through the desert.

Mike remembers the beautiful Mass and celebration surrounding the opening of the new building in 1999 and the overwhelming sense that God had cared for the school throughout its journey. Then he received another gift: the opportunity to teach within those new walls for another 22 years.

Throughout his career, Mike taught alongside educators he deeply admired, including religious sisters whose unwavering dedication had shaped Sacred Heart for generations. He coached countless athletes and watched them learn lessons extending far beyond wins and losses. For Mike, being part of a team taught young people how to work together, sacrifice for others, and eventually become leaders of perhaps the most important teams they would ever have—their own families.

But whether he was standing in a classroom or on the sidelines, Mike's philosophy remained remarkably consistent.

He didn't want to focus only on who a student was at that particular moment in his or her life.

He wanted to see who that student could become.

Mike believed his responsibility as a teacher was to help young people move from where they were toward the person God had created them to be. Sometimes that meant pushing students beyond low confidence, complacency, or the limits they had placed upon themselves.

It wasn't always comfortable.

"It didn't feel good to either of us at the time," Mike admitted.

But then came the moments every teacher treasures:
The transformation. The realization.

The student who had been absolutely convinced, I can't do this, suddenly discovering:

I can.

Mike calls it the "AHA moment—the NOW I GET IT moment."

Those were among the most satisfying moments of his teaching career, especially when a young person reached a height he or she had once believed was impossible.

That philosophy also explains why Mike believes teaching can have such an extraordinary impact on the world. Teachers work with young people at a formative moment in their lives. They can challenge them, encourage them, and help them discover gifts they do not yet recognize in themselves.

But at Sacred Heart, Mike believes there is another essential piece.

God.

Mike believes education sometimes focuses too heavily on helping young people achieve their plans for their lives. Certainly, students need goals, ambition, and dreams. But he believes true fulfillment comes when those dreams are united with something greater: God's plan for them.

"When their plan matches God's plan," Mike reflected, "true happiness is the result."

That, for Mike, is what makes Catholic education different.

Sacred Heart does not simply teach children about God. It gives them opportunities to develop a relationship with God—a relationship that can help them recognize their gifts, understand their purpose, and ultimately become the people they were created to be.

Answering the call to teach at Sacred Heart, however, came with very real sacrifice.

Before returning to Sacred Heart, Mike had been teaching in Australia. When he accepted his position back at Sacred Heart, his salary dropped to less than half of what he had been earning.

For a time, that was difficult.

Mike remembers comparing himself with other educators, particularly those teaching in public schools, and feeling discouraged by the difference in compensation. As he and Julie married and began raising a family, those financial realities became even more significant. Julie also worked at Sacred Heart, both for a time as a teacher, and for many years as the Music Director for Sacred Heart Parish.

And over the years, Mike witnessed something especially painful.
He watched great teachers leave Sacred Heart because financially, they simply could not afford to stay.

Eventually, Mike said, something changed in his own heart. He stopped comparing.

Instead of concentrating on what others had and what his family did not, he began focusing on gratitude—the blessings of his marriage to Julie – Mike insisted that no description of his life would be complete without noting her constant support and key role in all their successes – his family, his relationship with the Sacred Heart Church and School community, and the opportunity to spend his life serving God through young people.

"The blessings began piling up," he reflected, "as we continued to serve the Lord rather than ourselves."

Mike's gratitude for his vocation does not erase the financial sacrifice required of Catholic school teachers. If anything, his story helps us understand why supporting those teachers matters so deeply.

For 43 years, Mike Marek was able to remain at Sacred Heart. Think for a moment about what that means.

Forty-three years of students.

Forty-three years of athletes.

Forty-three years of encouragement, challenges, victories,
disappointments, conversations, prayers, and "AHA moments."

Forty-three years of seeing young people not simply for who they were—but for who they could become.

The Dick Fontaine Endowment for Teacher Salaries has been established so that Sacred Heart can better support the men and women who accept this extraordinary calling. Its purpose is simple but tremendously important: to strengthen teacher compensation so that outstanding Catholic educators can build careers at Sacred Heart, support their families, and remain long enough to shape generations of students.

Because when an exceptional teacher stays, the impact compounds.

A student becomes a graduate. A graduate becomes a parent. An athlete becomes a coach.

A young person who once doubted himself becomes someone who helps another person recognize her own potential.

And the lessons planted in one classroom continue bearing fruit decades later.

Mike believes every human being ultimately seeks happiness. Our Faith teaches us that the deepest form of that happiness is found when we understand who God created us to be and have the courage to follow His will for our lives.

For more than four decades, Mike Marek helped Sacred Heart students move a little closer to discovering exactly that.

The Dick Fontaine Endowment gives all of us an opportunity to ensure that the next great Sacred Heart teacher can do the same.

Great teachers don't simply teach lessons. They shape lives.

The Sacred Heart Foundation Family would like to express our prayers and condolences to the family and friends of David ...
08/24/2026

The Sacred Heart Foundation Family would like to express our prayers and condolences to the family and friends of David Allen Smith, who went home to the Lord on August 17th. David was an alumnus of the class of 1960.

Grant him eternal rest, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.

If you missed our Teacher Feature highlighting Pam Laffen two weeks ago, please take a moment to read her amazing story ...
08/24/2026

If you missed our Teacher Feature highlighting Pam Laffen two weeks ago, please take a moment to read her amazing story below:

Pam Laffen: The Faith and Heart Reward

For Pam Laffen, becoming a teacher wasn't a decision she made in college. In many ways, she had known since she was a girl.

By the time she was 14 or 15, Pam loved caring for children so much that she willingly gave up other weekend activities to babysit. As a senior at tiny Wimbledon High School, she spent her study hall reading with younger students. She had been inspired by a phenomenal first- and second-grade teacher of her own, as well as high school teachers who continually pushed her to do better.

Once Pam found the right path in college, there was little doubt about where she was headed.

She simply wanted to finish her degree and have a classroom of her own.

And have a classroom she did.

Pam's long career in Catholic education included teaching at Sacred Heart, Holy Family, Holy Spirit in Fargo, and St. Joseph's in Red Lake Falls. Even in retirement, she continues to volunteer at St. Michael's in Grand Forks. But her connection to Sacred Heart began early in her career, when she taught sixth grade here from 1985 to 1987.

She remembers those Sacred Heart students well.

"Good kids," she recalled. "Very active, community minded, Sacred Heart minded."

Teaching sixth grade meant teaching everything, and Pam still remembers some of the extraordinary events that became part of those school years, including watching the Columbia space shuttle disaster with her students and a measles outbreak in Canada that forced the cancellation of a class field trip. They are the kinds of memories teachers accumulate over the years: moments of history intertwined with the ordinary rhythms of spelling tests, math lessons, recess, Mass, and growing up.

But ask Pam where she believes she made the greatest impact as a teacher, and she doesn't talk about test scores or lesson plans.

She talks about being there.

"I was a good listener," she said. "I was always there, and I believed in them and they could do anything."

Pam encouraged parents to become active participants in their children's education, and her students always knew what she expected of them. She describes her classroom discipline as "very strict, but consistently strict." Even students who sometimes struggled with behavior outside her classroom knew the expectations when they walked through her door and responded to them.

Years later, Pam began to understand just how far her influence had reached.

Her husband, Lonnie, served as a state senator, and while campaigning door-to-door he repeatedly encountered people who recognized his name for an entirely different reason.

"I know your wife. My kids had her as a teacher!"

Those former students and their families knew Pam. They trusted her. And because they trusted her, Pam recalls, that trust extended to Lonnie as well. Even today, she remains in contact with former students who continue to count on her.

"It fills my heart," Pam said. "It's a rewarding field. I was lucky enough to have that calling."

Calling.

It's a word that came up more than once during my conversation with Pam, and perhaps no word better describes the work of a Catholic school teacher.

But answering a calling does not mean the sacrifices aren't real.

For Pam and Lonnie, particularly as a young family, Pam’s teaching in Catholic schools required them to make financial choices and, at times, be blessed by the generosity of their families. Pam remembers her parents making it clear that if their grandchildren ever needed something, they wanted to be the first people they called.

And they meant it.

Their parents bought snow gear for the children. They helped with childcare. Sometimes they arrived with food and the simple explanation that they'd had a pig butchered and happened to have "extra." Lonnie's parents helped in similar ways. During the early years of Lonnie's business, paychecks sometimes came every other pay period.

They made it work.

They never went without. But Pam's memories offer an honest glimpse into something Catholic school families have understood for generations: the men and women who dedicate their lives to teaching our children often make very real financial sacrifices to answer that call.

So why make the sacrifice?

For Pam, the answer comes back to faith.

Catholic education, she believes, builds upon a child's faith journey and prepares children to face life knowing they can count on God. It teaches them that Jesus is always there and that, in moments of uncertainty, they can simply pray:

"Come, Holy Spirit."

That, Pam believes, is worth the sacrifice, for parents and for teachers.

And perhaps that's why, years after retiring from the classroom, Pam still finds herself surrounded by children at St. Michael's.

She still watches.

She still listens.

She still teaches.

She still sees the moments that make all the work worthwhile.
When asked what she would tell a young teacher beginning a career in Catholic education today, Pam's advice was simple: stick with it.

Give it a couple of years. Give it the energy it requires. Then look at those children at the end of the school year and see how much they have grown.

"The faith and the heart reward is totally worth it," she said.
For Pam, that reward can be found in watching children become prayerful and peaceful at Mass. It can be found when a five- or six-year-old begins to understand that the way we treat another person is also the way we treat Christ. And ultimately, it can be found when children begin making a beautiful decision of their own:

They want to be more like Jesus.

That is the return on an investment in a Catholic school teacher.
The Dick Fontaine Endowment for Teacher Salaries has been established to help Sacred Heart invest in the teachers who make that difference every day. By building a permanent source of support for teacher salaries, this endowment gives all of us an opportunity to help ensure that exceptional educators can answer the call to teach at Sacred Heart without the financial sacrifice becoming an obstacle to following that vocation.

Pam Laffen's legacy lives in former students who still remember her, still trust her, and sometimes still call on her. It lives in the parents who knew their children were loved, challenged, and believed in. And it lives in the countless moments no one outside a classroom ever sees. Moments of a struggling child encouraged, a lesson finally understood, a prayer quietly offered, or a young heart learning to become a little more like Jesus.

Pam was right.

The faith and the heart reward is totally worth it.

And through the Dick Fontaine Endowment for Teacher Salaries, we have the opportunity to make sure the teachers who devote their lives to giving our children that reward know that we believe in them, too.

New to our bi-weekly Enewsletter is the Teacher Feature.  In the past two issues, we have featured past Sacred Heart Tea...
08/24/2026

New to our bi-weekly Enewsletter is the Teacher Feature. In the past two issues, we have featured past Sacred Heart Teachers Pam Laffen and Mike Marek. Please check out Mike's story and more at our Enewsletter page here:

We had a great turnout for today’s Memorial Gathering.  Thank you to everyone who helped to make this a beautiful celebr...
08/14/2026

We had a great turnout for today’s Memorial Gathering. Thank you to everyone who helped to make this a beautiful celebration!

We had some help from a fantastic group of Sacred Heart students setting up the dining room for tomorrow’s Memorial Gath...
08/14/2026

We had some help from a fantastic group of Sacred Heart students setting up the dining room for tomorrow’s Memorial Gathering. The tables are set, the eggbake is prepped and ready for the ovens. See you tomorrow!

PS- if you forgot to RSVP, don’t worry, I made plenty of food. 🙂

Our Memorial Gathering will be held this Friday morning at 10am followed by Brunch.  If you haven't RSVP'd yet and plan ...
08/10/2026

Our Memorial Gathering will be held this Friday morning at 10am followed by Brunch. If you haven't RSVP'd yet and plan to come, please do so today. We want to make sure we have plenty of delicious egg bake for you, and it also gives us the opportunity to place the names of those you are attending in memory of in the program for the day.

To RSVP, please contact Melissa at 701-306-2833, or click here:
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Today, Sacred Heart Foundation is honored to premier our newest Endowment:  The Dick Fontaine Endowment for Teacher Sala...
08/10/2026

Today, Sacred Heart Foundation is honored to premier our newest Endowment: The Dick Fontaine Endowment for Teacher Salaries.

Just this spring, Sacred Heart received a generous legacy gift from alumnus Dick Fontaine. Richard "Dick" Fontaine, an alumnus of the class of 1960, passed away on February 25th, 2025.

Dick was generous to Sacred Heart throughout his life, and at his passing, he left a gift of 2 million dollars in a family Donor Advised Fund for the benefit of Sacred Heart.

After meeting with his daughter and son, Laurie (Fontaine) Junker and Craig Fontaine, they decided the best way to honor their father - who began his career as an English Teacher - was to designate this fund as the Richard "Dick" Fontaine Endowment for Teacher Salaries. In the words of Dick's daughter, Laurie:

Dad attended Sacred Heart for all of his pre-college schooling, and while he often bristled at the strict rules, he would later admit that he had probably benefited from that structure. At Sacred Heart, he was an average student who loved sports (he played football and basketball) and English. While in high school, one of his teachers encouraged him to enter the Voice of Democracy writing contest, which he won. That success was undoubtedly the catalyst for his belief that kids often need "that one person" to see a spark in them and offer some direction. He paid it forward, both with his students when he taught high school English and later with his employees. Creating an endowment to recognize and retain these kinds of teachers feels like a fitting way to honor him and the impact Sacred Heart had on his life.

Sacred Heart Teachers will begin benefitting from this generous gift with an annual distribution dedicated to increasing their salaries this fall! The Sacred Heart Foundation would like to invite the rest of our foundation family to join in their efforts, and so we have created a companion endowment, the Dick Fontaine Endowment for Teacher Salaries, which you can give a gift to today.

In our continuing efforts to highlight this opportunity to join in the mission, you can check out our "Teacher Feature", interviews of Sacred Heart teachers, past and present.

The reality is choosing to teach at Sacred Heart means accepting, at present, you will be paid less than a teacher in our public school system. It is a sacrifice and commitment to our mission which is inspiring. But it is a sacrifice we don't want our teachers to have to make. So let's work together to close the gap.

Growing up, my teachers were always my heroes and I believe every one of the teachers who have chosen to be a part of Sacred Heart, past and present, are heroes as well. Building this endowment is an exciting opportunity to make the lives of our teachers, our heroes, better. Please prayerfully consider supporting this mission today.

Click Here to Join the Mission of Supporting Sacred Heart Teachers:
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The Sacred Heart Foundation is proud to feature our newest highlighted scholarship, the Dale M. Neppel Scholarship. Dale...
07/10/2026

The Sacred Heart Foundation is proud to feature our newest highlighted scholarship, the Dale M. Neppel Scholarship.

Dale is pictured here with his wife, Judy, and his daughter, Melissa. I spoke with Judy and Melissa to find out more about Dale and why they chose to honor his legacy with this Scholarship.

There is an old saying that education is not simply about making a living-it is about making a life. Few people understood that better than Dale Neppel. Throughout his life, whether as a student, athlete, educator, administrator, husband, father, or friend, Dale believed deeply in the power of education to shape lives, open doors, and help people discover their God-given purpose. It is fitting, then, that his legacy will continue through the Dale M. Neppel Scholarship at Sacred Heart.

Read the rest of their story, and join in honoring Dale with a gift to his scholarship fund here: https://www.sacredheartfoundationegf.net/highlightedscholarships/dale-neppel-scholarship

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