05/08/2025
Though we try tried to avoid the subject, maybe time to be transparent and not hypocritical about it, folks.
According to US research on the matter there are 3 reasons for this phenomenon.
Younger mothers' lower libido is due to an overtouch by her small kids. Satisfied she is already with this kind of sensual "body touch".
Another reason is the lack of sleep : if not enough energy at the end of the day then not much activity in bed either.
Finally every irritant remark by her husband makes her reluctant to have s*x with her partner, as for her it is an emotional rollercoaster.
Every of this negative emotion should be compensated by 4 emotional compliments by him (something she needs more than water !). Wishing good luck with daddy's arithmatics at the end of the ride then !
A remedy for a younger father to boost a young mom's libido is maybe creating less stress for her by helping out with her chores at home after her daily job on.top of it .
Being naturally kind as much as possible can create a necessary positive s*x mood with his wife as well.
Nothing for free anymore.
Another invironment in the weekend (hotel or Spa resort) now and the or sending the kids to the grandparents, with a romantic dinner before might be a good idea as well.
It requires lots of patience with the beloved spouse to find the right timing for all this, of course.
Finally some common sense as well might be helpful.
Good regular s*x is a must for Mom's immune system fighting all kinds of natural diseases but needed for her personal balanced well-being. But there is another reason why s*x is the glue between mind and heart in a healthy couple's long love life.
When s*x is denied in a couple's love life for a longer period - for whatever reason - then partners feel emotionally abandoned and cut off.by the bonding hormone oxytocine in their natural s*x drive.
If they don't cheat on each other and keep their fidelity vows intact, it is because of the kids they don't want to hurt or to lose their kids on the way in their marriage (together with a social status).
In Eastern countries like Ukraine and Russia, another problem occurs then as women legally little protected with divorce (71%) in comparison with the West (53%), and
having to raise their kids as a single mother when men walk away.
All facts we have to face living in an international digital world, in which a tempting datingsite screen with a pretty face or with some nice words,
can ruin a relationship in no time if s*x issues with both genders.
And if not wrong again, Mom and Dad got together to create a happy family life, so better keep up the s*x pomp, no... ☺️ ?
Jean-Paul
