08/11/2026
TRYING TO FOLLOW THE RULES: 02
For two years, we’ve stayed relatively quiet about our experience navigating Fairfax County.
I think it’s time to start talking about it.
Here’s the part that matters:
We started by asking.
Before doing any of this, we contacted the County, explained what we hoped to do with our property and asked how to do it correctly.
The feedback was positive.
Since then there have been plans, seven rounds of revisions on one greenhouse permit, complaints that were investigated and closed, violations, meetings, withdrawals at the County’s direction, resubmissions and requirements we had never heard before.
We have repeatedly gathered departments together and asked one very simple question:
Tell us what we need to do.
Then we do it.
And somehow, the answer keeps changing.
Every change has a cost.
Consultants.
Plans.
Revisions.
Studies.
Delays.
Attorneys.
Work done based on yesterday’s direction that may not satisfy today’s.
This isn’t about believing there shouldn’t be rules.
There absolutely should be.
We called before we started because we wanted to follow them.
But oversight should be understandable, consistent and actually possible to comply with.
So I’m going to start sharing our experience.
Not because I want a fight.
Because after two years of quietly trying to work within the system, I think people should see what navigating that system can actually look like.
I’m so tired. Drained. Financially, mentally, and emotionally. Everyone always says they’re happy the land isn’t a neighborhood now. But maybe that’s what the county wants, cause those go up in a minute in relation to our very simple plans and timeline.
I just keep reminding myself my “why” and get myself back up, hopefully that maybe tomorrow the day will come.