02/09/2026
Did you know that by learning to honour your yes and no you can heal parts of you that learned the belief that you’re no important and your voice isn’t important.
It goes without saying that children have very limited influence on their own lives and most of us are trained to go along with what we are told and expected to go along with.
This behaviour can then transfer into our adult lives where we struggle to have boundaries, speak up for ourselves and have a limited understanding of our true desires.
You can start to address and heal these parts of yourself when you start saying yes when you mean yes, and no when you mean no.
Before giving an answer to anyone, allow yourself the time to sit with how you really feel and honour the decision your body is telling you.
It’s a skill that you have to learn, it doesn’t come naturally and we have to learn to be okay with disappointing others.
Rescue yourself and that inner maiden!