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ONE LIFE We're Andy & Jules. In 2020, over 50 and burned out, we moved to Spain in 90 days and built a life we actually love. Ready to design your second act after 50?

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If it ain’t fun, what’s the point?In our eyes, that goes for life, work, relationships, and pretty much everything else....
03/09/2026

If it ain’t fun, what’s the point?

In our eyes, that goes for life, work, relationships, and pretty much everything else.

In this picture, Jules and I discussing a very serious matter:

Where next for tapas?

I can’t exactly remember how this conversation played out, but I’m pretty sure there were rocks, paper and scissors involved.

The locals think we’re nuts. But that’s the point, right?

Honestly, when did life get so serious?

And where’s all the fun gone?

Over here apparently 😎

Brandy or Sherry? 🥃🍷Remember the good old days at Christmas when Granny used to have a cheeky Sherry, and we all thought...
02/09/2026

Brandy or Sherry? 🥃🍷

Remember the good old days at Christmas when Granny used to have a cheeky Sherry, and we all thought it looked rank?

Us too…

But having lived in The Sherry Triangle for the past 18 months, we’re converted.

Here’s the thing…

Having visited most of the bodegas in the locale, we finally made it to Fundador in Jerez, which is more about Brandy than Sherry.

Now, Andy likes a little tipple here and there, but by the time we left Jersey in 2020, Remy Martin was pushing £60 a bottle.

Don’t get me wrong, it was nice, but after our tour of Fundador, we scored one of the best brandies we’ve ever tasted, for just over €8 a bottle.

Plus, it was one of the most interesting tours we’ve had yet in ‘The Triangle’. And Jerez is only 10 minutes on the train from home.

What’s not to like?

So, where do you stand? Are you a Brandy or Sherry fan?

Salud! 🥂

Who said we have to get old?You're over 50 - play it safe, simmer down, do the right thing, be unseen.Good luck with tha...
01/09/2026

Who said we have to get old?

You're over 50 - play it safe, simmer down, do the right thing, be unseen.

Good luck with that around here, we're only getting started...

I told Jules, I was off to catch a couple of waves, and she said, "Not without me and the Radbug."

That's my girl 🙌

When people tell us, "This getting old thing is crap," I always say, "It's better than the alternative."

One Life - go do your thing my friends...

We didn't know today was a bank holiday until it came up in conversation yesterday afternoon.And that says more about wh...
31/08/2026

We didn't know today was a bank holiday until it came up in conversation yesterday afternoon.

And that says more about where our heads are these days than anything else we could tell you.

There was a time we'd have known about a bank holiday months in advance, because Jules used to cling on to them like life rafts.

And they cost us more than you'd imagine, too. Because she could never just let a long weekend be a long weekend. We'd build a little break around every single one of them. We had to book something, go somewhere and fill the space.

We told ourselves it was making the most of the time. But looking back, it was really just a way of papering over the cracks of a life that wasn't working, and doing it three or four times a year at eye-watering expense.

The August one was always the hardest, though.

It felt like the last of the summer and the last bit of freedom rolled into one, and then it was back to it with nothing but winter stretching out ahead.

Of course it never actually was winter ahead, there were perfectly good months left, but that's how it looked to us from where we were sitting for years.

If any of that sounds familiar today, we'd say the flat feeling isn't really about the summer ending. It's about looking at what's coming and not being able to see much in it that you actually want.

That was certainly true for us, and we'd assumed it was just tiredness, or the weather, or being a certain age, right up until we changed things and the feeling went away and never came back.

Things are different now in ways we still find slightly funny.

We need reminding that it's a bank holiday. Some days we need reminding what day of the week it is. And we're never once ungrateful for that.

So tell us about yours. Where in the world are you today, what have you been up to, and how's the weather where you are?

Hopefully it's not one of those that always seemed to plot against us on the one weekend we'd been counting on.

Some say we don’t take life over 50 seriously enough.And . . . what’s your point?To be honest, we haven’t even stared ye...
07/08/2026

Some say we don’t take life over 50 seriously enough.

And . . . what’s your point?

To be honest, we haven’t even stared yet.

Happy Friday folks, get out there this weekend, have an adventure, laugh your flip flops off, and give the middle digit to the dull life brigade.

Because it’s too damn short not to have fun.

Andy & Jules 😘

Would the younger me be proud?A worthy check-in question to ask ourselves from time to time -  would the me from ten or ...
17/07/2026

Would the younger me be proud?

A worthy check-in question to ask ourselves from time to time - would the me from ten or twenty years ago have wanted to be the me today?

If we find ourselves pausing on any part of that question, it’s worth leaning in to understand why.

--

This came through on my email today, and it got me asking myself that question.

So, considering that we've been in Spain for nearly 6 years, I can safely say that, yes, my 10-year-younger self would have been happy with where I am today.

Twenty years is a different proposition...

It was around the time I was going through my mid-life crisis in Australia (but was it really a crisis?)

Back then, I'd lost my way a bit. I was at a crossroads, and really didn't know what to do with my life.

I knew I had to do something or else I was going to waste the years ahead.

And you know what? Being 50 seemed like a very long way off, but here we are.

The point is...

It doesn't matter when you stop and look at where you are now vs where you want to be.

You can be 40, 50, or even 70+; what matters is recognising that something has to change.

Since I hit 50, I've had the best years of my life. So many adventures, new experiences, new friends - these really are the best years, and with many more ahead.

So let's circle back to the top:

"Would the younger you be proud?"

Food for thought this weekend...

Andy 🙌

Just back from Carmona, and honestly, what a couple of days.We'd actually been before, four years ago, on our way back f...
16/07/2026

Just back from Carmona, and honestly, what a couple of days.

We'd actually been before, four years ago, on our way back from Cordoba. We only stopped for a night, but we splashed out and stayed in the parador, and it left a real mark on both of us.

The town is one of those places you leave promising yourself you'll come back to properly one day. So when we knew Jules was flying out of Seville today, we thought right, this is the moment. Let's go and dig a bit deeper, get under the surface of it, and see what we missed the first time.

This time we stayed at the Alcázar de la Reina instead of the parador. It's a beautiful old place right in the heart of the town, and it gave us a completely different feel of Carmona.

For anyone who hasn't come across Carmona, it's a small hilltop town about twenty minutes from Seville airport, and only ninety minutes up the road from home.

Which is one of the things I keep coming back to when I think about the life we've built here. We can just get in the car, drive up in the afternoon, and be somewhere completely different by the evening. No planes, no planning, no big production.

The town itself is something else...

You walk in through a gate the Romans actually built over two thousand years ago, still standing there like it's the most normal thing in the world, and then the whole old quarter opens up in front of you.

Whitewashed walls, cobbled streets, orange trees everywhere. The parador sits up at the top in what used to be a Moorish fortress, and the views across the Andalusian plain from up there genuinely stop you talking for a minute.

And I have to mention the food because it really is tremendous, and I don't use that word lightly.

We ate our way through some proper local places, and every single meal was better than the last.

Jules and I sat there looking at each other, going, "How is this actually our life?" Which is really the point of this post, I suppose.

Six years ago something like this would have been the holiday of the year. Weeks of planning and a day and a half to get here.

Now it's just what we do on a Tuesday because Jules needs to get to the airport.

And every so often we stop and actually notice that, because it's easy to let it become normal and forget how much work went into making it possible.

If you're ever flying in or out of Seville with a bit of time either side, do yourself a favour and stop in Carmona for a night.

Stay somewhere in the old town, wander the cobbles, eat everything, and let the place work its magic on you. You'll thank me for it.

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Places we stayed:
🏨 Parador de Carmona
🏨 Alcázar de la Reina

Where we ate (almost everywhere ;)
🍽️ Bar Goya - look for the Duck Tapa
🍽️ Bodega José María - Cod & Prawns + Octopus
🍽️ Castaño Vinos y Tapas Carmona - Pork

Drink with a view:
🍷 Restaurante Molino de la Romera

That airport feeling...The one where the holiday is over, bags packed, flip flops exchanged for something more sensible,...
16/07/2026

That airport feeling...

The one where the holiday is over, bags packed, flip flops exchanged for something more sensible, standing at the departures board checking your flight time and feeling that quiet dread creeping in.

Back to reality. Back to the routine. Back to the same old same old.

I know that feeling very well. I lived it for years.

The dread of going back to work, back to the desk, back to the Monday morning that was already ruining my Sunday night.

I'm sitting at Seville Airport right now, looking at that departures board, and I don't feel any of that.

Because I'm not going home. I'm going to visit.

Jersey is where I was born, where my family and most of my friends are, and I honestly can't wait to see them all.

But Spain is where Andy and I have built our second chapter, our business, and our life.

The place I'll be thinking about while I'm away and already looking forward to coming back to.

Six years ago I'd be sitting at the gate waiting for the flight home and already booking my next holiday, because that's how I survived.

Living for the weekends and the next escape.

Funny how things change.

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