The Vilomah Community

24/10/2026

Today, on Grandparents Day, we acknowledge the grandparents who carry their grandchildren in their hearts, even when they cannot hold them in their arms. 🤍

For grandparents, the love is just as deep, the bond is just as real, and their place in the family is forever.

Today, we send love to the grandparents who grieve quietly, who miss milestones they dreamed of sharing, and who carry the memory of a little life that will always matter.

Happy Grandparents Day. 🦋

20/10/2026

Such a beautiful song by Ben Johnson.

Sending love to him & his family

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“21 Weeks” is out now.

This is the hardest song I’ve ever released.

My wife and I went into an ultrasound expecting to find out whether our baby was a boy or a girl. Instead, we learned that we had lost our baby.

For me, one of the hardest things to understand afterward was that I wasn’t only grieving our child. I was grieving an entire lifetime I had already started imagining.

Teaching them things. Picking them up when they fell. Getting a call someday because their car broke down. Watching them grow up.

Memories that never happened, but somehow still felt real enough to lose.

“21 Weeks” came from trying to put words around that.

How do you say goodbye to somebody you never got the chance to say hello to?

Today is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day.

If you’ve experienced this kind of loss, I hope this song makes you feel understood for a few minutes. And if you love somebody who has, maybe it can help you understand a little more of what they carry.

This song started as ours.

Today, I hope it can belong to anyone who needs it.

“21 Weeks” is available everywhere now. 🤍

https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/benjohnson1/21-weeks

19/10/2026

Thank you 7NEWS Riverina for capturing such a special evening at our Wave of Light last week. 🕯️

We are always so grateful for the incredible support of our community, who continue to come together each year to remember and honour our beautiful babies.

14/10/2026

October 15 — International Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Day 🩷💙

Today, we remember the baby's who will always hold a place in our hearts and the families whose love for them never ends.

To every parent, grandparent, sibling, and loved one grieving today — you are not alone.

Tonight, as the world lights candles for the Wave of Light at 7pm, we join together to share love, remembrance, and support. 🕯️



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10/10/2026

Beyond grateful to be selected as a finalist among other incredible organisations.

Community Achievement Awards for NSW & The ACT

10/10/2026

Can't believe its been a week already!

Thank you 7NEWS Riverina for your amazing coverage of this incredible event.

So grateful for this experience with Wagga Wagga Takes 2 & Aaron Oldaker's Live Music

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04/10/2026

💗 Help The Vilomah Community shine! 💙

We would be so grateful if you could take a moment to vote for The Vilomah Community in the 2026 Community Achievement Awards for NSW & the ACT. ✨

Everything we do is in honour of our beautiful girls, Mia and Ruby, and all the precious babies gone too soon. Our mission is to support families navigating pregnancy and infant loss, ensuring no family has to walk this heartbreaking journey alone. 🦋

Every vote helps us raise awareness, reach more families and continue the work that means so much to us. Our girls are the reason behind it all, and we are so proud to keep their names and memories alive through Vilomah. 💕

If you have a moment, please click the link below and vote for The Vilomah Community. We would appreciate your support more than words can say.

🔗 https://awardsaustralia.app.do/2026-community-achievement-awards-for-nsw-the-act-raw

Thank you for continuing to support us, our girls, and every family we hold close. 💗💙