07/09/2026
When "yes" doesn't mean yes.
There's a process behind every support worker who joins our team. We advertise, we shortlist, we interview, properly, not a tick a box chat. We get to know the person. We tell them what the role really looks like, sleepovers and all. We offer the position, send through the paperwork, bring them in for onboarding.
Then, a week or two later, the excuses start. Suddenly they're "not available" for sleepovers. A last-minute call to the office, sometimes on the day itself. And we're left asking the same question: why commit to something you had no intention of honouring?
Support work isn't for everyone. That's honest, and it's fine. But there's a real difference between realising a role isn't the right fit and saying yes to make an interview easier, then quietly backing out once the paperwork's done.
Every time this happens, we start the process again, the advertising, the shortlisting, the interviews, the onboarding. That's time and cost our team absorbs. But the real loss isn't ours. It's the participant who was told a familiar face was coming, and now has to start over too.
If you commit to a role, commit to it. Say no early if it's not right for you. that costs nobody anything. Don't waste your time, our time, or the time of the person who was counting on you to show up.