10/10/2026
Day 1785.
Most days, I look at Luca and wonder where my baby went. Somewhere along the way, the little boy who once needed help with nearly everything has become this incredible, determined, independent little person who seems to surprise me every single day.
The progress lately has been remarkable. He’s growing, learning, finding his voice, gaining confidence, and making leaps that once felt impossibly far away. When you see someone every day, though, it’s easy to lose sight of just how much has changed. The milestones start blending into ordinary life, and sometimes you forget just how extraordinary that ordinary life really is.
And then someone says something that stops you in your tracks. Today, it was someone who has been there for us, who knows where Luca started and understands just how much it has taken to get here.
“Little man has come extremely far and is kicking ass.”
Such a simple comment, but it meant the world to me. It made me want to go back through photos and look at the bigger picture. These were all taken around the same time of year, beginning before Luca was even born and continuing through today. Different years, different challenges, and an entirely different little boy in each one.
His progress has never been linear. There have been setbacks, detours, terrifying moments, and stretches where moving forward felt almost impossible. There were times when we were simply hoping to get through another day, never mind imagining what life might look like years down the road.
Sometimes progress is a major medical milestone. Sometimes it’s something as ordinary as watching your child do something you once wondered if he’d ever be able to do. And sometimes it takes someone else pointing it out to remind you of just how far you’ve come.
I think that’s what makes these moments so special. The people who have walked alongside us aren’t just seeing the little boy Luca is becoming. They remember the boy he was, too.
When they recognize his progress, it feels like they’re celebrating every version of him that fought to get here.
1785 days of becoming. 1785 days of proving that progress doesn’t have to be perfect to be extraordinary. He is, in fact, kicking ass. I couldn’t possibly be prouder of this kid.