09/30/2026
WHAT IT WAS LIKE GROWING UP WITH KYLE ❤️
From his mom, Rebecca
Kyle was always a social butterfly.
He was constantly talking to someone, no matter where he was. And honestly, that was true even when he was a little boy.
In first grade, that particular gift nearly gave me—and a few other grown-ups—a heart attack. 😂
Kyle and Zackary rode the bus to my work every day after school. My work was only a couple of blocks from the school, so they were usually there within about 15 minutes of dismissal.
One afternoon, the bus stopped, the kids got off and went their separate ways…and only Zackary came inside.
I asked, “Where’s Kyle?”
Zackary said, “I don’t know. I thought you had him. He wasn’t on the bus.”
Well, I had not checked him out. Neither had anyone else.
So we locked the doors and headed to the school. The principal, Mr. Cornelius, immediately started calling buses and trying to figure out where this child had gone. Kyle’s teacher, Mrs. Johns, had already left campus but turned around to come back and help search.
And just as I was about to completely fall apart, we finally figured out where he was.
Kyle had gotten on a different bus with a friend…and then gotten off at her house, too! 😂
Thankfully, his t-ball coach’s wife was a family member of the little girl. She happened to be there when they got off the bus, recognized Kyle, and brought him back to the school.
This child climbed out of the vehicle with a snack, a drink, and a smile on his face like he had just been on a perfectly normal afternoon outing.
When we asked him why in the world he was on this little girl’s bus, he looked at us with complete confusion and simply said:
“We were still talking.”
😂
Apparently, Kyle wasn’t finished with the conversation, so he decided the logical thing to do was just keep it going.
It’s funny now, especially remembering the completely confused look on his face as he tried to figure out why all these grown-ups were so upset.
As far as Kyle was concerned, he was just living his little 7-year-old life. He was focused on his friend, enjoying the moment, and having a good time.
And in so many ways, that little story says so much about who Kyle was.
He lived life fully. He was present. He was interested in people. He found joy in the moment. He made connections everywhere he went.
And I miss that so much.
Since losing Kyle, one of the things I’ve tried to do is carry some of those lessons with me—to slow down, be present, focus on the people in front of me, and find the joy in the moment instead of always worrying about what comes next.
Kyle taught me so much about life without ever knowing he was teaching me anything.
Sometimes, I think those are the lessons that stay with us the longest.