03/06/2022
Today, March 6th, is Black Balloon Day. We take a moment to remember those that we have lost to overdose.
Many of you know we lost my son, Kyle, in June of 2020 to an overdose. He was only 26 years old. What you may not know, is what an amazing human being Kyle was.
Kyle would often drop everything to be with a friend or family member who was suffering. His empathy was his greatest asset – allowing him to feel what others felt. Kyle made deep connections with those around him, relating to them, and giving them a shoulder to lean on. Kyle brought to others a rare sense confidence that things can be better than they seem. He willingly carried the weight of their problems for them when they could no longer carry it themselves.
We have been fortunate to meet so many people that Kyle helped – crediting him for their recovery. Many of his friends still speak of Kyle today as “one-of-a-kind” in his sincere personal humanity. To know what kind of person he was from their experience with him has softened the hardship of the grief we feel.
Every time we lose people like Kyle, the world is a lesser place. It does not have to be this way.
Please do not give up on those that are struggling with mental health, drug, and alcohol problems. No matter how hard you find it observing from the outside, it is little compared to the inner war they fight within themselves. No one chooses to feel or act in self-harmful ways, but they may not know a way out. Help them find a path.
Do not isolate yourself from them, or them from everyone else. Remember, presence is a present. Just being there with them can mean so much to those that suffer in silence.
While the loss of Kyle will forever be something we try to understand, We are still deeply inspired by him and his journey to help others. A commitment I and my family carry-on in his name.
The memory of those we have lost should inspire us to find those in need.
Stephen King wrote, “Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies.”
Be there and give them hope for something better.