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11/02/2026

Just because a horse has learnt to tolerate something doesn't mean they feel safe experiencing it. We often mistake stillness, compliance and the absence of resistance for acceptance, without considering what may be happening internally. A horse's nervous system tells a much deeper story, and learning to recognise the difference can completely change the way we approach our relationships with horses.

11/02/2026

When we begin giving horses more choice and genuinely listening to their communication, we may start seeing behaviours that weren't there before. This doesn't necessarily mean things are getting worse. Sometimes a horse who has learnt that expressing discomfort achieves nothing begins to communicate more openly when they discover someone is finally listening. We need to be willing to hear what they have to say, even when it isn't the answer we were hoping for.

10/31/2026

Just a few clips from some time with Segan at Sixteen Hands Horse Sanctuary today. Jess and I went over the other day to check his feet and legs because he was limping. When I went to give oral meds, he had a very strong negative reaction to it that could be dangerous to a handler. So I have been trying to work on it without meds involved and break it down and explain the steps to him while he is hopefully in a better frame of mind to learn. Today, he was having a lot of thinking and processing beyond what I have seen before. He is a really agreeable horse who doesn’t want any trouble and has been a real trooper while we are trying to get to a safer and calmer place with oral meds. ☺️

10/27/2026

The flinch is not excitement. And it is not naughtiness.

Here is an uncomfortable thought for your next groom: when your horse snaps at the girth area, pins her ears at the brush or steps away mid-session, the most common explanation owners reach for is behaviour. Freshness. Disrespect. Quirkiness.

The less comfortable explanation is that touch, right there, is unpleasant. Not always. But often enough that it should be the first question, not the last.

Current understanding of the skin and superficial tissues supports this: the skin is densely innervated, and areas under rugs, girths and tight grooming pressure are exactly where sensitivity builds. A horse cannot tell you it hurts. She can only show you, and then absorb being called difficult for showing you.

Observe, don't assume. Before you correct the behaviour, run the experiment: a lighter brush, a slower hand, the same spot. If the reaction fades when the pressure changes, the horse just told you something important. If it does not, that is a conversation for your vet or bodyworker.

This is grooming observation, not veterinary advice: persistent reactions, especially new ones, deserve professional eyes.

The next step takes one session. Approach the reactive spot last, not first. Let her see the brush. Start lighter than you think necessary. Watch what changes.

If your horse has a spot she guards, describe it in the comments: where, since when, and what you have tried. I read every one, and these patterns shape what we cover next.

Save this for your next groom, and read the full observation-first approach in The Regulated Horse: https://eqclusive.com/products/the-regulated-horse-ebook-by-marta-kotonska

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