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I don't post much here anymore, but sometimes, you just wanna believe that things won't go toooo far the wrong direction...
10/19/2020

I don't post much here anymore, but sometimes, you just wanna believe that things won't go toooo far the wrong direction. But they are. And with a new SCOTUS Justice who is radically conservative, things could get worse. If you're looking for some talking points to counter The Cheetoh-in-Chief's insistence that he's done more for the LGBTQ community than anyone, here are some reasons to clarify that perhaps he means he's done more AGAINST the LGBTQ community than anyone.

HRC lists Trump's persistent attacks against the LGBTQ community after the RNC claims he's taken "unprecedented steps" in support of the community.

Long time, no post! But I thought it was exciting that the HRC will be hosting a Democratic primary debate about LGBTQ i...
03/19/2019

Long time, no post! But I thought it was exciting that the HRC will be hosting a Democratic primary debate about LGBTQ issues in October!

It will happen on National Coming Out Day.

Just a friendly reminder...Chick-Fil-A is still run by a homophobe. Your dollars are votes. "They're so yummy" = a vote ...
06/13/2018

Just a friendly reminder...Chick-Fil-A is still run by a homophobe. Your dollars are votes. "They're so yummy" = a vote in support of a company that believes the Trump administration is on the right track with LGBTQ rights.

Not having your chicken sandwich sucks, but not having equal rights sucks even more.

I usually stay out of events across the country that aren't my business. But I'd like to shame these producers as much a...
05/17/2018

I usually stay out of events across the country that aren't my business. But I'd like to shame these producers as much as possible. The article is below and my response on their FB page is pasted here...
"I disagreed with the decision to cancel the show (full disclosure: I'm a gay man) but wasn't going to engage. Across the country. Bad choice but whatever. Then I saw you trying to play the victim here and was appalled. The murder rate for members of the LGBT community because of their sexuality or gender identity increased 86% between 2016 and 2017. And I'm not even getting into bullying or hate crimes that don't result in death. Those people are actual victims. Your implication that two gay dads (who don't even SAY ANYTHING???) are not "family friendly" helps send the message that a gay family or person is "less than" and worthy of attack, whether it be verbal, emotional or physical. You are not a victim, you are a bully. Most bullies choose to blame their victims (i.e., "If he wasn't a homo, I wouldn't have had to beat him up."), thereby harming the true victim a second time. This is what you have done, intentionally or not. Shame on you. Take your lumps. You deserve them."

A Pittsburgh “family-friendly” community theater has canceled a production of the musical Big Fish after a dispute with the director over the inclusion of a same-sex couple as backgroun…

So, this is a tiny step in the right direction from an administration that has shunned any other such steps. Why does it...
05/15/2018

So, this is a tiny step in the right direction from an administration that has shunned any other such steps. Why does it make me totally suspicious???

LGBTQ advocates say the change is “a step in the right direction.”

It's nice to share a little good news..."Less than three years after the Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriage natio...
04/14/2018

It's nice to share a little good news...
"Less than three years after the Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriage nationwide, a majority of Southerners — 55 percent — say they support allowing homosexual couples to marry legally. That's below the national rate of 64 percent, but nonetheless a drastic turnaround for a region that strongly opposed gay marriage not long ago."

A new NBC News | SurveyMonkey poll shows the South's political views are more nuanced than many might expect, with Trump underwater.

I'd been wanting to vacation in Costa Rica. Perhaps I should consider relocating there!
04/02/2018

I'd been wanting to vacation in Costa Rica. Perhaps I should consider relocating there!

The center-left's Carlos Alvarado Quesada decisively defeated a conservative Protestant singer in Costa Rica's presidential runoff election on Sunday by promising to allow gay marriage, protecting the country's reputation for tolerance.

The LGBT community no longer counts in this country...literally. During the 2020 census, we will not be counted. Just an...
04/02/2018

The LGBT community no longer counts in this country...literally. During the 2020 census, we will not be counted. Just another step to marginalize the community, and it's easier to harm people that aren't easily seen.

Advocates are calling for a congressional oversight hearing after LGBTQ questions were quickly removed from a draft of the 2020 Census.

Sorry to have been quiet for awhile but this one lit my fire. Laura Ingraham is already known to be a monster, but she a...
03/29/2018

Sorry to have been quiet for awhile but this one lit my fire. Laura Ingraham is already known to be a monster, but she attacked, belittled and insulted David Hogg, one of the leaders of the movement who was a survivor of the attack at Parkland. While scrolling down his feed, I also saw that the intentionally outed students at Dartmouth when she was in college in 1981, a time when that could've had tragic consequences much more easily. In the article below, it lists a tweet so you can boycott her advertisers. (Once advertisers started pulling out, she claimed the Holy Spirit moved her to apologize.) The only one I use is AT&T, so I already tweeted at them. Please do the same.

P.S. If you want to feel better about the future of the world, look at how easily David brushes her off without breaking a sweat.

Fox News Channel primetime star Laura Ingraham has apologized for mocking Parkland high school shooting survivor David Hogg, after he said he had been rejected by several California colleges to whi…

Just a reminder that if you're hoping Trump dies in office or is booted out, this is who you get next...and HE knows how...
10/19/2017

Just a reminder that if you're hoping Trump dies in office or is booted out, this is who you get next...and HE knows how to get legislation passed!
“Homosexuals are not as a group able-bodied. They are known to carry extremely high rates of disease brought on because of the nature of their sexual practices and the promiscuity which is a hallmark of their lifestyle.”

"Homosexuals are not as a group able-bodied. They are known to carry extremely high rates of disease."

More horrible, backwards-moving news in Mississippi, the state (I just learned) that has the highest rate of same-sex co...
10/12/2017

More horrible, backwards-moving news in Mississippi, the state (I just learned) that has the highest rate of same-sex couples raising children. Anyone can discriminate against them now if it offends their "religious beliefs"; this includes doctors. Doctors.

The "Protecting Freedom of Conscience from Government Discrimination" Act is state law in Mississippi, after the 5th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals denied the request of plaintiffs in the Barber v. Bryant lawsuit to block it while they appeal to the U.S. Supreme Court.

As an extra slap in the face, the President announced his intent to speak at the Family Research Council ON COMING OUT D...
10/11/2017

As an extra slap in the face, the President announced his intent to speak at the Family Research Council ON COMING OUT DAY. The bottom just keeps getting lower and lower...and scarier and scarier.

'Our Christian Heritage Will Be Cherished, Defended, Protected Like You've Never Seen Before' Trump Promised Conference Attendees in 2016

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