11/07/2025
At first it was just a perception. After a bit of consistency it became a pattern. After long time study, it’s become a problem. My faith says “Do not judge” but it’s tough.
What the hell are you talking about? Let me explain.
More than 17 months post-transplant and a new lease expertly provided by excellent medical treatments and one incredible woman/soul mate sharing a spare and saving this dude’s life?
Americans need to be friendlier to one another.
After 17 months of daily early-morning neighborhood walks alongside others out and about walking dogs, drinking coffee and visiting? When passing others? I always say hello. I dunno, it’s just me but it seems weird to walk past another human and not say hello.
Rarely does anyone return the welcoming gesture. I don’t know if it’s fear of the crazy-looking and fast walking dude who stops occasionally. Why? To stop and drop, stretched the back, work the upper body with push ups and lower with squats. Darling wifey calls it, “Mark’s Workout Walk.” It’s a good description.
A vast majority stare straight ahead. Don’t even make eye contact. Often, staring down at their phones. Like ships passing in the night. Don’t know if that’s good for us. Our nation is divided. Government shut down. State and federal vital services disrupted. Stressful times. It’s reflected everywhere.
And then here comes the good news. Victory’s A Stronger Cord program absolutely feels blessed to work closely with the Denver Rescue Mission. For more than decade, ASC’s “Comeback Coaches” have walked beside men in the mission’s New Life Program.
We like to joke, “Hey, we all got our story. It doesn’t matter if we’re Black, White, Brown; live in a mission, mansion, on Main Street or behind it. We need each other. We can’t go it alone.”
King Solomon long ago said something still vibrating your scribe’s “Iron string within.” It’s become the spiritual foundation to an 11-year effort alongside DRM to lessen the impact of homelessness. “One will be overpowered, two can defend themselves but a cord of three strands is not easily broken.”
Walking past person after person who stare straight ahead unable to engage in civil manners. We wonder why things are a mess. We can do better. A good place to start is building a stronger cord to one another and showing others a little grace. Have a good weekend. SWOCE!™