10/15/2026
Seven years into her own widowhood, Loretta was searching for resources to encourage her recently widowed sister when she discovered Hope Gathering. What began as a desire to help someone she loved became an unexpected gift in her own journey. Today, Loretta leads one of our Hope Gathering Communities in Georgia, helping other widows experience the same meaningful connections, understanding, and hope she found. Her Story of Hope is a beautiful reminder that no matter how many years have passed since losing a husband, there is still room for healing, friendship, and purpose. 🌿
"I came across a Facebook post about Hope Gathering while I was searching for resources for my sister, who had recently lost her husband. I had been a widow for about 7 years at that time and wished I had been able to experience the fellowship and community that was being promoted.
I ordered a box for myself to see what my sister would receive. Even seven years later, I was overwhelmed at the thoughtfulness of the items included in the Hope Box. I located a Hope Gathering group in the area and decided to attend a gathering, alone, knowing no one. After that first meeting, I stated, 'This was the group I didn’t know I needed!' I felt such a kinship, an understanding that couldn’t be explained. Women who understood exactly what I was feeling and experiencing.
My husband died after battling liver cancer for a year and a half. We were married for 30 years. The loss was so crushing — all the hopes and dreams were suddenly gone, having to make decisions alone, all the secondary losses, someone to share life with just vanished.
GriefShare was an invaluable resource and along with my faith, which was tested and strengthened, helped me cope and deal with the difficulties in navigating widowhood. God was with me every step of the way.
Finding Hope Gathering, attending gatherings, the Weekend of Hope, and becoming a group leader has stretched me out of my comfort zone and has been so rewarding. Isn’t that what God does so beautifully? Pull us out of our comfort zone?
Through Hope Gathering I found a sisterhood of fellow travelers on this journey and my heart is to help widows find comfort, hope and healing in this community. I want to give back the love and support I have felt through this wonderful, caring community."