04/04/2022
Being in the first generation of your family can be so challenging. There are many things you have to learn by yourself, things that your parents don’t even know themselves, that sometimes you teach them as well. This makes you grow up faster because you know you have to rely on yourself and be reliable to your family. This is a country that my parents didn't grow up in, they came to this country with their own culture and language, and we together learned the language and the culture. As children my brother and I grew up translating for our parents, whether it was a document, the back of a medicine bottle, or our order to the waiter at a restaurant. The language barrier was difficult because it did prevent my family and I from attaining resources. Sometimes, I feel as if we didn’t get to be a kid for long, but looking back my parents gave us a happy childhood filled with love, delicious food, support, and always encouraged us to fight for our passions. Both of my parents did not attend college and finished their GD when they moved here. Even though they didn’t know certain things like how to apply to college, they listened to us during the whole college application process, and always cut up fruit for us when we worked on our applications for hours. My mom was with me when I opened my BU class of 2022 acceptance email, she cried with me, and hugged me until I had no tears left. I have talked to my mom about what it is like being first generation and she feels guilty, that it is her fault I struggled. But I have told her that it is not her fault, she put in so much effort into helping us in every way she could, and if it weren't for her I wouldn't be who I am or where I am now. Yes, being first generation is difficult, but we are capable of achieving what we set our minds to. We are the first generation to graduate from college, heal years of family trauma, and open new doors for the generations to come. ¡Si se puede! ¡Si se puede!