25/10/2026
People who use violence can also target someone’s mental health directly.
This can look like constantly undermining someone’s confidence, isolating them from friends and family, or making them doubt their own memory and judgement. Sometimes it means using a person’s mental health against them, telling them no one will believe them.
This is abuse. It is part of coercive control, and its effects can be just as serious and long lasting as physical violence.
The responsibility always sits with the person using violence. We all have a role in holding them to account: recognise these behaviours for what they are, believe people when they tell us, and refuse to excuse or minimise it. If you’re worried about your own behaviour, support is available to help you stop.
📞 1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732 (24/7)
📞 Lifeline: 13 11 14 (24/7)
📞 13YARN: 13 92 76 (24/7, for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people)
📞 Men’s Referral Service: 1300 766 491 (for anyone worried about their own behaviour)
📞 In an emergency, always call 000