07/03/2024
Now lets talk of Break ups.
Theirs a joke that goes as its better to be crying of a heart break in a Benz, or in a jaguar or range Rover than crying while walking under the sun ๐คฃ๐คฃ. The moral lesson goes to productive relationships, breakups are part of life and are bound to happen as much we never desire to see things end apart.
Going separate ways is okay, especially if both can not work it out or one does not want to work it out! But even as you do, both should atleast be happy about one thing that you both pushed each other to greater heights, for example both of you atleast own companies, own businesses. Atleast both your families are progressing. In short you meeting such a person was a blessing despite things not going as you both planned but you both helped each other in a way. Their was more good to be thankful for than any bad can bring hence peace.
Relationships are to grow you, from posing on buildings be it hotels, or car company buildings to owning buildings, from trying to create a name for the public to being the name the public can learn from.
Its so sad, when people breakup or when one breaks up with the other, one party or both parties cry not because their going to miss the person, or each other or because the person made an impact in their life they will never forget, that they never think of burning bridges with that person for good, but instead they are crying for their investment they made in that person, they crying for the time they spent in the relationship,their crying for the vulnerability they gave in the relationship and hence they feel like staying because their sacrifices were too deep not because the person is worth loosing.
When they finally dry up their tears and sit down with themselves, they realize the breakup was actually worth it and thank God the person broke up with them or yet both parties went separate ways. It was actually for the best .
In Conclusion, Our main emphasis is on us being the best version of ourselves to people, As a leader in our spheres of life our workplaces, families, marriages, relationships.Let us be leaders that when one meets us they never question deleting you in their life, because of Character, Your relationship with God, is an example, the way you handle situations is an example , Your tone of your voice is an example, your reactions are an example. And as a person submitting under authority, making sure that you are teachable, making sure your character is of humility, vulnerability, peace love unity, not of competition but of grace. We know we are not perfect people yes, but that should not be an excuse to not doing the right thing.
Both of these aspects go hand in hand together inorder for a productive relationship to occur.
We love you!