The Side Chics Association of Zambia - Scaz

06/06/2024

What is causing alot of cheating in married women now?Could it be a revenge to their cheating husbands?
Open discussion please come and give your views.
Are you suppose to cheat back as a wife? What are other ways a wife can deal with a cheating husband apart from cheating back?
Anyway with me I see it not to be right,it's better you leave him if you can't handle it because at the end of it all a wife is always condemned without even considering the cause.
So if you were a wife with a cheating husband or abusive husband what can u do,how can u handle such a situation?

17/02/2024

You are not a curse by being a side chic as the call it.That man followed you own his own so chill girl play your number well and jst bkoz that man liked/loved you doesn't make you lose respect on his wife.Play your part as a side chic and don't interfere.Dont go extra miles to do the duties of a wife ,girl u are jst a side chic and your duties are for a side chic.I still repeat you are not a curse nor problem Even Solomon in the bible had concubines 😂😂😂😂😂

24/07/2023

The way these wives act holier than thou,as if they were not once Side chics before they became luck to find that marriage to be wives.
Side chic mwandi don't feel bad ,you never know maybe you are even better than her it's just that she found a man to make her a wife.

19/05/2023

Ladies don't lower yourself to sympathize with someone's stupidity.Ladies there is nothing like he doesn't have or love is not all about money.Stop cheating yourselves and face reality.Men are providers and as a lady you come in as a helper.Men are givers and as ladies we are keepers.A man spends on what he values but if he doesn't spend on you then run for your life.There is nothing like he has not married you.Charity begins at home,so the time u are dating him bfo marriage is where you should see for yourself if he is capable of taking care of you as his wife and family.He should not take advantage that you are working.

24/04/2023

I know you love that married so much,but don't show him that you can't do without him.Show him that you also have a life.There are times these married men would go mute Even for a day or more and then boom he will appear like Jesus kikkk start calling, texting,don't revenge pick his kols no matter how hurt and don't show him you are hurt by not calling/communicating to you.If you see that he is quiet engage communication yourself,just say hi, goodmorning, evening, goodnight, that's is all don't go beyond that.Show him you can still do better even best without him.Your peace must come first.That married man is a human being who can come and leave you and go for someone else like he came for you leaving wifey behind 😂😂😂😂😂.

24/04/2023

A beautiful Monday.I just want to say Goodmorning my People.

01/04/2023

My beautiful Single lady,it's better to have a private love life with a married man who is able to respect you, provide for you,care for you and support your hustle than being with a single guy who does not respect you ,who is not even concerned about your well-being,only thinks of himself first who makes you feel like it's a favor to date you.For as long as you don't hurt that other woman.
1.Remember you are not the first one to date a married man, Even that same wife of his might have passed through a married man's hands.
2.Please remember you are not there for marriage.Make sure you play your number wisely by not hurting yourself,or making yourself look stupid or hurting that other woman at home.when you are with him it must be a business between you and him,if he shares what is happening at home advice him wisely without blaming that woman at home because you have not heard from both sides.

01/04/2023

Married men and Side chics I wish you a happy and successful new month.Married men remember some side chics are wiser than your wives.Dont just be with them for leisure build each other.Share the ideas of life with her.
So now mine is in,he is escorting me to deliver my products.Dont be a liability.Show him you g*t a future girl.

18/03/2023

Goodmorning my ladies.Its a Saturday those who worship on a Saturday please go to Church,those who go to church on Sunday what's for Saturday?
Note that it's not every Saturday you should go out with him I mean that married man you are dating.Allow him to be with his family most of the time, remember you also need space.
You can still be busy with house chores or that business he has opened/started for you.
Don't be that Side Chic who can only offer s*x to a married man no no no.Show him that you also have qualities maybe even better than his wife but that should not make you disrespect his wife.My lady out there play your card cool.Let him appreciate you 🙏.Stop stressing him ,give him the peace and space he needs but don't feel Shy to tell him,ask him to empower you.

17/03/2023