15/10/2025
The Truth Behind South Africaโs โSafety Netโ for Mothers in Crisis
On paper, South Africa has a beautiful safety net for mothers in crisis. A woman who feels unable to keep her baby can ask for a social worker at the hospital, she can go to a police station and leave her baby there safely, or she can reach out to a child protection organisation for help.
But the truth is very different.
In reality, many mothers who find themselves in these desperate situations are met with judgment, shame, and rejection rather than support. Hospital staff often victimise or embarrass a mother who says she cannot keep her baby. If she manages to speak to a hospital social worker, she is frequently told to โgrow up and deal with it.โ When her baby still needs medical care, she is watched constantly and not allowed to leave the ward, because staff fear she might abandon her baby.
Going to the police is also rarely a real option. Most police officers do not know what protocol to follow in such a situation and when they do, they are often reluctant to take the time to follow it properly. Their focus is understandably on fighting crime, not on helping a mother in emotional crisis.
Child protection organisations can be a lifeline, but they are not always easily accessible. Not every community has one nearby and even when they do, social workers can sometimes be overworked, unavailable or judgmental instead of understanding.
For many of these women, asking for help feels impossible. They may already have a negative history with the Department or social workers, or theyโve heard stories from others who were treated badly when they reached out. Fear, shame and mistrust keep them silent and alone.
This is why baby savers (or baby boxes) exist.
Baby savers do not promote child abandonment. They provide a safe and humane last resort for mothers who, despite all the options that exist on paper, find none of them accessible or supportive in reality. The truth is, if a mother has made up her mind to abandon her baby, she will do so, safe or unsafe. A baby saver ensures that if she does, her baby is protected from danger, weather and harm. Within moments, the baby is found, cared for and given a chance at life.
To ban baby savers is to ignore the harsh realities faced by women in crisis. It is to place faith in a system that looks good on paper but too often fails in practice.
Baby savers donโt encourage abandonment. They save lives.
You can help.
Please object to this bill by emailing the following or your own words:
"I object to the proposed amendment to the definition of abandonment in section 1(a) of the Children's Amendment Bill in that it proposes to include a child relinquished in a baby box. This is a form of safe relinquishment and should not be defined as abandonment as it safeguards the child's right to life".
Email that to:
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or [email protected]
Deadline: 25 October
Your voice matters. Together, we can protect mothers in crisis and save babiesโ lives.
Link to the amendment to the bill:
https://pmg.org.za/call-for-comment/1620/?fbclid=IwVERDUANaOvZleHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHkbEVbiUAW8t8qbGzOlyJ87wJCv-qttHZsTvMSO2ejIH-74EfNBuMqD4NaNv_aem_7vqTFYXOib_m_dTF0Au3jQ