02/06/2026
Have you ever had a word on the tip of your tongue but just couldn’t quite find it? For some children, this happens in almost every conversation. This is often linked to difficulties with word retrieval.
Challenges with "output" often mean that a child might use words incorrectly, speak hesitantly, or struggle to come up with examples to explain their thoughts. They also might struggle in an exam situation to give enough of an answer for the mark allocation. They could also run out of time because they take a while to express themselves.
As parents, one of the most powerful things we can do is reduce the pressure around speaking and make language feel safe, relaxed, and fun.
Here are a few ways to support your child at home:
• Give them extra time to answer instead of jumping in too quickly
• Avoid saying “you know this” or rushing them when they get stuck
• Play simple word games like Categories, Crosswords, 20 Questions, or I Spy
• Encourage conversation during everyday activities like driving or cooking
• Praise effort and communication, not just “getting the word right”
• If they can’t find a word, gently help them describe it instead
Sometimes children know far more than they are able to express in the moment. Patience, support, and understanding can help build their confidence over time.
