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30/10/2026

🇿🇦 THE WAS NO SIGN OF PREGNANCY!!
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Hi Ask a Man. Fam it's been 7 months since my bf told me he impregnated. Last month one of my friends saw his "baby mama" but there was no sign of being pregnant. My friend said she saw the bbmama at the mall with her friend wearing the bbl dress and her belly was flat. And I was confused to hear that cause the baby was consived on February. Because i knew that this girl used the child in her belly cause she wanted me and bf to break up i began to search my bfs phone to the point that i found out that the girl wants LBs for the sake of their child to have a complit happy family than i saw my bf asking for videos and pics of her belly but she said she has no data.Well I love gossip. To know the truth I ask someone I knew that knew her as well and she said she'll spill the tea when the water boils. I just found out the truth that there is no baby. The fact that my bf wants to buy baby things I don't know if I should tell him or not. Plz help

29/10/2026

🇿🇦 SHE DENIED ME FOR 5 YEARS!!
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Good evening Ask A Man And Family. Im a 41 year old married man i stay in my father inlaw's house me and my wife we have a 14 year old son and my father inlaw has passed away many years ago, the reason im staying there is that my wife while we were still dating she asked me come stay with her coz she is afraid to stay alone at that time, fast forward that her brother is staying with us but outside in a zozo while we are stay in a main house. Her brother doesnt respect me n im the one who renovated that house coz it was a disaster nje, again my wife denies me s*x and its been 5 years now she claims she is going through spritual journey and im a man i have needs so i decided to cheat on her yho guys its a lot nje, my family claims that she has used traditional muti on me coz there is no man who will stay with a woman like that especially at this day and age. On top of that she has brought a 5 year old girl from her relative who is now staying with us when that child arrived she said she was just visiting but that child is still staying with us im the one who is suppose to feed and clothe that child coz my wife is not working and the mother of that child is a drunker yho guys im going through a lot😭

29/10/2026

🇿🇦 IT'S BEEN 5 YEARS SINGLE!!
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Good morning Ask a Man South Africa. Please hide my ID.

I need to ask your followers, what do you guys use to attract girls? I don't know if I'm ugly or what but I hardly get girls, or is it because I'm broke? Why is it so difficult to get girls but other guys who are even uglier than me bag a 10/10. What muthi do you guys use, I also want one because wawo😭 it's been 5 years single. I'm tired of this life because I always have to watch corn to be satisfied or even play with my hand. I haven't tasted it in like a long time and I don't even know if it still works😭

Please guys give me tips on how to get girls, I always get rejected. Maybe I'm not as attractive as other guys🥺 I want a normal life also. I'm 26 year old guy.

28/10/2026

🇿🇦 I WAS HOPING HE WILL CHANGE, LITTLE DID I KNOW!!
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Good Afternoon Ask a Man South Africa
Please post for me anonymously.
I'm married to this guy and he abuses me emotionally,this abuse of his started long before we got married and i kept ignoring the red flags 😭 but now it is too much,I have even been diagnosed with depression,I'm on anti depressants.He treats me like a nobody,he doesn't see me,he doesn't have even a little respect for me.I need an advice on what can i do😭😢💔 I can't bear the pain anymore 😢 I'm attending counselling every now and then and I've been protecting him hoping that he'll change but he gets worse each day😥

28/10/2026

🇿🇦 HE DOESN'T LOVE OUR KIDS!!
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Hala Ask a Man family and admin. Hide me from the public.

Guys I'm in a relationship and I need some advise. Me and my husband have two kids and he has one kid outside our marriage, he cheated on me in 2017. I managed to forgive him, so what's happening is that my husband spends more on his outside child than ours. One of our kids didn't have a school bag and he got him a cheap school bag while that one bought him a Nike school bag. He takes that kid to Mac Donald's, he takes him to KFC🥺 but our he just buy them kotas or bring them chips, he never takes them out or anything. I feel like he loves that outside child more than ours and baby mama doesn't even bother him that much, he sometimes do things willingly. Please advise me here

27/10/2026

Copied!!Admin i have a problem, my little brother works well and he gets paid R8000 and he only sends R2000 per month 😭. He is 21 years old and he doesn't have a wife and kids. I stay with my wife and my 3 kids, so each and every month he sends us R2000 only then yena he'll be left with R6000. The thing that bothers me is that me, my wife and kids are 5 in total and he only stays alone, why can't he take the R2000 and give R6000 to us cause he is only staying alone? Things are really hard here at home sechaba , I was asking for help and advice? How can I tell my little brother to do the right thing? I will be thankful for your advice? 🙏

27/10/2026

🇿🇦 IT'S NOT HIS CHILD!!
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Good morning Ask a Man family. Keep me anonymous. I just have a little confession. Back in August, I slept with my boyfriends brother, I was drunk that day, my boyfriend was at his home and we had a partyana at my place. So to be honest I don't really remember what happened that day but all I remember is that I went to bed, drunk and somehow when I wake up I saw his brother with me in bed and we were both naked. I ain't gonna lie I don't remember anything, and it turns out I'm pregnant, me and my boyfriend didn't use protection twice, but I don't think it's his kid🥺 is it possible to do abortion at this time?

27/10/2026

🇿🇦 SHE DOESN'T LOVE ME!!
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Hello Ask a Man. Keep me private. I'm in a relationship with a 10/10 and we started dating last week. I'm working and she's not and now she started asking me R200 and I gave her last week she said she's gonna do her nails. Yesterday she asked for R500, she said she needs it to clear her shein cart. I told her I'll see what I can do since I don't have money. Is this a relationship or it's only money based RELATIONSHIP? truth is I don't even know where how she accepted me that easily.

26/10/2026

🇿🇦 I BELIEVE I CAN CHANGE MY ABUSIVE HUSBAND!!
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Hey Ask a Man South Africa. Please hide my identity. I'm 35 year old lady from PE. I'm in a marriage, we in this marriage for 6 years now. We have two kids.

Here's my story, my husband is abusive, emotionally, and physically.

My husband is not working currently, he got fired a year ago because of always being drunk at work. I on the other side lost my job due to Retrenchment. We rely most on child's grant. My husband would take that card and use it to get alcohol. When he knows tomorrow it's paydat, he steals the card and withdraw the money and drink it all, then he comes back the following day and ask for food. No matter where I hide the card, he always finds it, it's like he monitor me. If there's no food, he becomes so aggressive and even 👋 me.

He always say I'm useless to him, he insults me, his insults no longer hurt me anymore. Everytime he says something I have to answer politely and if I don't answer I get a 👋 if I answer he's saying I'm back chatting him and again 👋 I spoke to his family about this behavior but they don't really care. They hate me those people, since I got here they never liked me.

Nothing goes solved. I left our home several times to go get some air but it doesn't always help, I always end up going back, even with him not inviting me over. I also don't know why I'm holding on to him like this, sometimes when I think of the years we spend together, the memories we had. I always have a believe that I can change him, but it doesn't really seem to to the way I planned. I don't know what you guys think I just needed to vent hey, thanks admin for the opportunity🥺

25/10/2026

🇿🇦 IT'S NOT EVEN THAT BIG!!
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Hey Ask a Man. Please hide me. I need advise. Guys when I have the deed🍆🍑 with my husband I feel so much pain and it's unbearable. And it's not that his thing is bigger, it's just average. It was normal before but now it's been two weeks and I only feel pain when I'm having it. What could be the problem here?

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