Building Family Relations

16/10/2026

“Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it.”
Proverbs 22

parents, mentors , teachers are doing their best to train the mind of a child. There is always one or two voices of wisdom& instruction that gets embedded in shaping who and how you show up as an adult.
Who is that person for you 🤔?

My grandfather takes the number spot for me.
He was not intimidated by the foolishness of youth. He handled it with care and understanding. Being around him brought a settling in my confusions. A sense of "belonging" affirming my identity.
I could right a book about our journey.
Who is that person(s) for you?💕
Nomase Loqo Building Family Relations Courage COACH - "Passionate About Empowering You" Lerato Makhatha

06/10/2026

With Esther Perel – I just made it onto their weekly engagement list by being one of their top engagers! 🎉

03/10/2026

Love this 💕 The only capacity and control we have is to change ourselves.

People are often experts on what their partner should do differently; without turning the lens on themselves.

When you change your position, your response, or your participation in a familiar pattern, the dynamic itself can begin to shift.

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21/09/2026

The past week has been hard for all of us. Triggering to say the least for many families. We are inter connected by Gods design such that none of us is spared from human suffering. We need divine intervention now more than ever.
We trust in his mercy, they are new every morning even during these seemingly dark times.
We speak healing and comfort to those who are broken hearted 💔 and sending sincerest condolences 💐
Stay safe fam💕

15/05/2026

22/04/2026

When in trouble. Who is likely to be your first go to option and why ?
1. Family
2. Friend
3. Mentor
4. Professional consultancy/advisor
5. Spouse/partner
6. Spiritual teacher
7. Other

Drop a number.

19/04/2026

"Surviving a hardship doesn't make you authority over others. It makes you authority on your own life" anon

25/02/2026

Sounds simple enough, yet we complicate everything.
I need you, you need me🎶💕💞

It's who we need to be for each other.

03/02/2026

Building Family Relations is concerned about the impact of absent mothers on the wellbeing of children. The social platform utilizes the term 'deadbeat moms'. This term is predominantly associated with affluent mothers from the Eastern Cape, as per comments from social media pages that frequently share these distressing stories. These stories are truly heartbreaking, and reading juts one single account can be enough to spoil one's week. Traditionally, grandparents would bridge this gap, but as they pass on, what remains is shameful. This includes instances of aunts and uncles rejecting these children and subjecting them to various forms of abuse, as well as mothers struggling or refusing to integrate these children into their new families.

From the child's perspective: Can we discuss what needs to happen, bomama? Kubi, Nomase Loqo. Courage COACH - Passionate About Empowering You. Lerato Makhatha. Building Family Relations Nomase Loqo Courage COACH - "Passionate About Empowering You" Lerato Makhatha

25/01/2026

We resonate with this view 👇🏽 Family is the first institution of governance. Where we learn important values, like belonging, consideration, contribution, accountability, etc. It's encouraging to hear this from influential community leaders - twice this week. Let the word go out there and lead us to reviewing the quality of current family relations for future generations through the eyes of a child 💞