New Identity Women/Pst Wives Interdenomational

26/09/2026

22/09/2026

Jotham told a strange story to the people of Shechem.

One day, the trees decided to choose a king to rule over them. First, they went to the olive tree and said, “Be our king.”

But the olive tree refused. It said, “Should I give up my valuable oil, which honors both God and people, just to rule over the trees?”

So the trees went to the fig tree and said, “Come and rule over us.”

The fig tree also refused. It said, “Should I give up my sweet and good fruit just to become king?”

Then the trees went to the grapevine and asked it to rule over them.

But the grapevine refused too. It said, “Should I give up my w**e, which brings joy to God and people, just to rule over the trees?”

Finally, the trees went to the thornbush and said, “Come and be our king.”

The thornbush answered, “If you truly want me to be your king, come and take shelter under my shade. But if you refuse, let fire come out of the thornbush and burn the mighty cedars of Lebanon!”

Jotham’s strange story was actually a warning about Abimelech, who had become ruler after killing his brothers. The trees represented the people, while the thornbush represented a ruler who had gained power through violence.

Judges 9:8–15

02/02/2026

THE WIFE WHO STOOD IN THE GAP

Exodus 4:24–26

There is a short, mysterious, and shocking story in the book of Exodus.
God had just called Moses.
God had just revealed His name.
God had just commissioned a deliverer for Israel.

Yet on the way to Egypt, the Bible says the Lord met Moses and sought to kill him.

Not Pharaoh.
Not the Egyptians.
But God Himself.

And in that terrifying moment, it was not Moses who saved the situation.
It was his wife—Zipporah.

Today, we reflect on a woman who acted swiftly, decisively, and courageously.
This sermon is about the role of a wife when a husband is in spiritual danger, and how God can use her discernment to rescue not only a man—but a mission.

Moses was chosen, anointed, and appointed—but he was still disobedient.

God had commanded circumcision as a sign of covenant.
Yet Moses had neglected to circumcise his son.

Let us be clear:
* Leadership does not excuse disobedience.
* Calling does not cancel responsibility.
* Public ministry cannot cover private neglect.

Moses could confront Pharaoh, but he had not confronted disobedience in his own home.

And many times, husbands may be:

Strong in public

Gifted in ministry

Respected by people

…but weak in obedience at home.

God takes covenant seriously.
When Moses ignored it, the consequence was immediate and severe.
The text says Zipporah acted right away.

While Moses was helpless—possibly sick, weakened, or under divine judgment—Zipporah discerned the issue.

She did not wait for Moses to explain.
She did not panic.
She did not argue theology.

She acted.

She took a flint knife.
She circumcised her son.
She touched Moses’ feet and declared,

“Surely you are a bridegroom of blood to me.”

Zipporah recognized:

The problem

The urgency

The solution

This shows us something powerful:

* A godly wife must have spiritual sensitivity
* A godly wife must have courage to act
" A godly wife must be willing to do what is uncomfortable to save what is important

This moment overturns cultural assumptions.

The deliverer of Israel was rescued by a woman.
The prophet was saved by his wife.
The man called by God was spared because a woman intervened.

Zipporah became:

An intercessor

A protector

A covenant enforcer

This teaches us that a wife is not merely a companion—
She is a guardian of covenant.

There are moments when:

A husband is spiritually careless

A husband delays obedience

A husband compromises

And God may place the responsibility on the wife to stand in the gap.

Not to dominate.
Not to disrespect.
But to rescue.

Zipporah did not act gently—she acted decisively.

Circumcision was painful.
The moment was tense.
Her words were emotional.

But love does not always look soft.

Sometimes love:

Confronts

Cuts

Corrects

A wife who truly loves her husband will not allow him to remain under God’s displeasure.

* Silence can be dangerous.
* Delay can be deadly.

Zipporah chose obedience over comfort.
She chose covenant over culture.
She chose salvation over silence.

And because of that, the Lord let Moses live.

Zipporah models what it means to be a spiritual watchman in marriage.

She watched:

Over her home

Over her husband

Over God’s covenant

Wives, God has given you:

Insight

Intuition

Influence

Use it wisely.

When you see your husband drifting:

Pray

Speak truth in love

Act with wisdom

Because sometimes, the very future God has planned depends on your obedience.

After Zipporah’s action:

Moses lived

The journey continued

Israel’s deliverance moved forward

One woman’s obedience preserved an entire mission.

Let us never underestimate the power of a wife who fears God.

Zipporah teaches us that:

God values obedience over title

God honors courage over comfort

God uses wives to rescue husbands in times of danger

She did not preach a sermon.
She did not part a sea.
But she saved the deliverer.

Today, may wives be reminded:
*You are not powerless.
*You are not insignificant.
*You are a vessel God can use to protect covenant and destiny.

And may husbands be reminded:
*Obedience begins at home.
*God takes covenant seriously.
*Sometimes, your rescue will come through the woman God placed beside you.

01/02/2026

*Advise to the Singles*

Until you are Married, you are Single
Stop deceiving yourself Let's clear this confusion and mentality:

1. We just got engaged (single)
2. I live with my boyfriend (still single)
3. We have been together for 5years (super single)
4. He had credit in my name (very very single)
5. I call his mother and she calls me also (connected single)
6. I stay at his place (foolishly single)
7. He post my pictures on social media and uses my pictures as his dp (first class Mumu single)
8. He comes to my house everyday (end of discussion single)
9. He has come to see my people before traveling abroad (living in bo***ge single)
10. All his family knows I’m his future wife (senselessly single)

12/01/2026

PAIN OF A PASTORS WIFE
‎IM TALKING ON BEHALF OF THOSE THAT CAN NOT SPEAK
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‎IMPORTANT THINGS TO KNOW ABOUT PASTORS WIFE
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‎1.Stop attacking and underrating your pastor's wife.
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‎2.Your pastor is sent to help you fulfil your destiny, but his wife is sent to help him fulfil his ministry.
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‎3.Please love , and celebrate your pastor's wife you can't go through what she is going through because of you and your pastor.
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‎4.Many pastors wife died before their time because of attack from satan, and the people their husband is sent to deliver.
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‎5. Many pastors wife are sick because of attacks, and burdens of ministry
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‎6. Many pastors wife some times wish their husband was not a pastor because of the betrayal, and pain they experience in ministry.
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‎7. Many believers honour and celebrate their pastor, but ignored his wife who suffers the burden they place on him.
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‎8. Many pastors wife are some times lonely because their husband is both married to them, and the church.
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‎9. Many pastors wife can't look sharply because they have decided to sacrifice their beauty for the growth of the church especially in the early days of the ministry.
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‎10. Don't expect your pastor to love and celebrate you if you hate and ignore his wife.

‎11.the reason why many ladies don’t like pastor wife is because we have what they are craving to sleep with .

‎12. Many pastors wife downfall comes from someone in the church who is sent with the devil 3 forth vision of killing,stealing and destruction
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I am a living testimony, please love and cherish your pastor's wife they go through mountains,lets continue praying for our spiritual mothers( pastors wifes).
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‎May God bless all pastor's wife's ❤️🙌🥺✨

Pastors wife's let's continue loving and praying for our husbands not forgetting to continuously submit under them and respecting them they are our kings...
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29/12/2025

RELATIONSHIP TO AVOID

1. You should avoid a relationship that is based on s*x. If all you do is to sleep with each other instead of discussing things that will benefit your life then that relationship is a waste of time and destiny.

2.Avoid any relationship that has no direction, purpose or aim.

3.Avoid any relationship that doesn't add any positive impact on your life.

4.Run away from any relationship that gives you more sorrows than joy.

5.Run away from any relationship that makes you cry or gives you more tears than laughter.

6.Do not stay in a relationship where you love someone but the person doesn't love you in return. You are dating yourself in the relationship.

8.When you see signs that a relationship can't work, don't try to make it work. IT JUST CAN'T WORK. There is no need remaining in such relationship.

9.Avoid any relationship where you find yourself struggling to love your partner.

10.Avoid any relationship where you are caged or restricted from enjoying your basic fundamental human rights.No relationship should restrict you from your rights, not even marriage.

11.Most importantly and above all. Avoid any relationship that will keep you far away from your creator.✌🏻

19/12/2025

THE SPIRITUAL REALITY BEHIND ADULTERY

This message is not designed to attract applause or popularity.
It is written as a warning, a guide, and a call to wisdom.
Not to condemn, but to preserve lives, futures, and souls.

S*xual sin is often discussed lightly in our generation, especially adultery.
Many view it as a private act, an emotional choice, or a moment of weakness.
But Scripture consistently reveals that adultery is far deeper than an emotional or moral failure.

It is a violation of spiritual order.

S*x is not merely physical.
Marriage is not merely legal.
Both are covenantal realities established and defended by God Himself.

When a man sleeps with a married woman, he is not only interacting with a person.
He is intruding into a covenant he did not institute, but one God actively witnesses and protects.

THE SPIRITUAL REALITY BEHIND ADULTERY

Scripture teaches that s*xual union creates oneness.

“He who joins himself to a woman becomes one body with her” (1 Corinthians 6:16).

This means s*xual intimacy establishes spiritual connection.
It is never neutral.

Through adultery, multiple connections are formed:

A spiritual bond with the woman
An indirect entanglement with her husband
An offense against the covenant binding them

This kind of defilement is not erased by secrecy, denial, or casual prayer.
It requires truth, repentance, and separation.

THE CONSEQUENCES OF VIOLATING COVENANT

Marriage is a covenant witnessed by God.

“The Lord is witness between you and the wife of your covenant” (Malachi 2:14).

Covenants carry protection, but when violated, they also release consequences.
Not because God delights in punishment, but because spiritual laws have been breached.

Such violations often open doors to:

Unexplained delays
Persistent confusion
Cycles of frustration and loss
Diminishing favor and clarity

Many struggle with prolonged hardship without realizing the root may lie in a hidden breach of covenant order.

THE TRANSFER OF UNINTENDED BURDENS

Adultery is not isolated.
Spiritual transfers occur through intimacy.

These may include:

Emotional wounds that are not yours
Conflicts originating from another household
Spiritual heaviness and inner unrest
Patterns of struggle that seem foreign to your history

“Harlotry takes away the heart” (Hosea 4:11).

You may find yourself fighting battles you never consciously chose, because intimacy made you a participant.

THE EROSION OF SPIRITUAL AUTHORITY

A person may still pray while living in adultery, but Scripture teaches that sin affects spiritual access.

“If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me” (Psalm 66:18).

This often manifests as:

Prayer becoming difficult or dry
Dreams losing clarity
Spiritual sensitivity diminishing
Boldness before God fading

The issue is not that God has moved away, but that conscience and alignment have been compromised.

THE OPENING OF DOORS TO OPPRESSION

Scripture speaks plainly:

“He who commits adultery lacks understanding; he destroys his own soul” (Proverbs 6:32).

Adultery grants legal access to destructive patterns, including:

Bo***ge to lust
Mental and emotional confusion
Repeated setbacks
Unexplainable inner conflict

What begins as pleasure often matures into warfare.

THE LONG-TERM DAMAGE TO DESTINY

Spiritual principles operate on seed and harvest.

“Whatever a man sows, that he will also reap” (Galatians 6:7).

Hidden actions eventually produce visible consequences.
Seeds planted in secrecy often grow into public pain, affecting future marriage, credibility, and purpose.

A WORD OF HOPE, NOT CONDEMNATION

This message is not written to destroy hope.

Where there is genuine repentance, there is forgiveness.
Where there is humility, there is restoration.

But repentance is not symbolic.
It is practical and decisive:

End the relationship completely
Create clear separation
Seek cleansing and accountability
Return to a path of holiness and wisdom

Grace is powerful, but grace does not dismiss truth.

WISDOM TO CONSIDER

Adultery:

Defiles the inner life
Violates sacred covenant
Transfers unnecessary burdens
Weakens spiritual clarity
Invites avoidable conflict
Gradually erodes destiny

What feels pleasurable today can become costly tomorrow.

Wisdom listens before consequences teach.

May this serve as a caution to the wise,
and a doorway to repentance and restoration for those willing to turn.
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30/11/2025

*New Identity Women Global*

🌟 LAST SUNDAY OF NOVEMBER EXHORTATION

Beloved, as we stand on the last Sunday of November, remember this: God is not done with you yet. What He has spoken over your life this year cannot be cancelled by time, delay, or circumstance.

✨ God saves the best for last.
✨ Your November will not end empty.
✨ There is a last-minute miracle with your name on it.

“Better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof…” — Ecclesiastes 7:8

Walk into this day with expectation.
God is about to finish November with glory, favour, and divine remembrance for you.
Your December will be open with testimonies.

Valarie

29/11/2025

A night of Glory