30/09/2026
🧠💙 BIG FEELINGS DON’T ALWAYS MEAN “BAD BEHAVIOUR.”
Have you ever wondered why a child can be 10 years old, but respond emotionally more like a much younger child?
For some children with special educational needs, emotional development may not happen at the same pace as chronological development. A child can be advanced in one area while still developing important emotional or social skills in another. 🌱
That can look like:
💥 Huge reactions to small disappointments
😟 Difficulty explaining what they are feeling
🔄 Struggling when routines change
👥 Finding social cues or other people's perspectives difficult
🧸 Needing more reassurance, comfort or support
And here's something important:
Emotional regulation is a skill. It has to be taught, practised and supported. ❤️
Instead of asking, “Why are you behaving like this?”
try asking, “What is this behaviour communicating?”
Instead of “You're too old for this,”
try “You're having a hard time. Let's work out what you need.”
And instead of simply saying “Calm down,” we can teach children how to calm their bodies and manage their emotions.
🌈 Meet the child at their developmental level — then help them grow from there.
Because the goal isn't for every child to develop in exactly the same way.
The goal is to understand, support and empower every child to keep developing. 💙